Marriage

[auroradreams23]

When young people enter into marriage.. or sometimes earlier on in a relationship..( nowadays what is marriage anyways?) there is a continual striving to have their needs met through the other person, to change that person into a replica of what they may even hate about themselves! There is no coming together, no one-ness. It can be a mess, a mess

Comments

[ba1126]

part of this is so many men stuck in the "I'm the head of the house", which too often they translate into "I get to make all the decisions". Marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship, and you need to work together, depending on each other and utilizing each one's strength.

[auroradreams23]

You have been telling me this for years and I don't disagree but every marriage is different and you have to work with what you've got! Do you disagree? A man's 'my way or the highway' attitude does not Biblically qualify for divorce and there's nothing a woman can do to change him beside pray. .. And how about the bossy wife? What's more odious than that?