Reality being that, no matter how heartbroken it made me, Jeff did what he thought was the right thing for himself, and no one can blame him for looking out for himself
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I've been kinda avoiding AIM since school has kept me so busy. The only times I've been able to use the comp lately, I can't stay long, so I don't want to get in a conversation and have to end it five minutes later, you know? Sorry about that tho...
It's great that you feel like that now. But be very careful that you don't become overly frustrated on the days when you DON'T feel like that (and they will happen).
And while you shouldn't *hate* him, it's ok to let yourself be angry at him once in awhile. You can't begin to heal until you acknowledge your anger. Once you acknowledge it, you can overcome it, and then truly heal.
Not to preach or anything. Just speaking from experience.
"Reality also being that, despite how he told me many times that I wanted to eventually, IN TIME, be friends, it isn't going to happen. He will move on with his busy life and make new friends while doing so. He will have no need for my friendship, and so he will not seek it out.
I can't keep hoping and thinking I'll get to be his friend again, and maybe one day more than that. It's over. It's done. I have lost a boyfriend and a friend. Neither are coming back."
getting a comment from you certainly surprised me.
tell me, where does it say that I don't WANT to be friends? did I miss something? Yes, I feel pessimistic about the probability because that way I wont be disappointed. That doesnt mean I don't want to try.
I really would like to try an be friends. If and when you're ready. I hope you didnt take everything I said in this post wrong. If you did, I'm very sorry.
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And while you shouldn't *hate* him, it's ok to let yourself be angry at him once in awhile. You can't begin to heal until you acknowledge your anger. Once you acknowledge it, you can overcome it, and then truly heal.
Not to preach or anything. Just speaking from experience.
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I can't keep hoping and thinking I'll get to be his friend again, and maybe one day more than that. It's over. It's done. I have lost a boyfriend and a friend. Neither are coming back."
I'm really, truly, sorry that you feel that way.
If that is what you want...
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getting a comment from you certainly surprised me.
tell me, where does it say that I don't WANT to be friends? did I miss something? Yes, I feel pessimistic about the probability because that way I wont be disappointed. That doesnt mean I don't want to try.
I really would like to try an be friends. If and when you're ready. I hope you didnt take everything I said in this post wrong. If you did, I'm very sorry.
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