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Compare and/or contrast your very first fandom obsession and your very latest fandom obsession.Under the cut - Harry Potter, Schitt's Creek, Buffy
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I think part of the problem is that we're not necessarily supposed to see Hermione's cringier moments as all that cringey, whereas we are with Willow, which does make it more interesting.
Yep, completely agree. Willow's darkness/potential for darkness is obviously acknowledged by the show, but I agree with you that I don't think we're meant to see Hermione's more ruthless moments as anything to worry about, because she's doing it for a good cause (which I think is the way Gryffindor morality goes dark, but I don't think that's what we're intended to take away from it).
Willow misused magic, but it was more of an ( ... )
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I think part of the problem is that spaces which are purely fannish are harder to findThis is true, yeah. Because I also agree that toxic fannish spaces will always exist, unfortunately, but it's easy to distance yourself from those toxic areas in a fandom and stay in your own little corner, it's definitely better by curating your own experience by following the right people and enjoying the fandom that way instead of engaging with every single part of that particular fandom. However, if a fandom doesn't have much fannish enthusiasm in terms of engagement it can be discouraging from continuing to be in that fandom ( ... )
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experience by following the right people and enjoying the fandom that way instead of engaging with every single part of that particular fandom.Exactly, as well as accepting that there will be "bad days" so to speak in every corner - not just the internet, but in life, honestly. People can be a-holes sometimes. The difference is when the entire fandom is like that, or at least an entire fannish space. Or when the a-holes dominate the space, which I'd say is more common, honestly ( ... )
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That, or, people not necessarily being assholes but just being overall negative. I've been in fandoms where it seems the majority of people end up disliking the direction of the story and all I see are rants and complaints, and believe me I used to be that person too where I would use my journal to rant about things. But it took a lot of emotional energy out of me and I stopped, it just wasn't healthy. And while venting out your frustrations can be good, doing so all the time and having an entire community in a specific fandom do the same thing can be emotionally and psychologically exhausting to deal with.
I'm not sure the "your ship is problematic" argument was as much a thing when I was more involved? That being said, I do think it still happened, it just got shut down fasterIt's certainly more of a recent thing, I think. I'm sure it happened before and, as you ( ... )
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100%! And I did the same exact thing. It was not healthy.
Which doesn't work because you cannot convince someone to not ship something if they really enjoy the ship, nor can you convince someone to ship your preferred ship if they, in turn, don't like it. It's pointless and it goes nowhere. And really, all shipping wars are the same, and most recently it's just been repackaged with a "woke" appearance which, like all faux woke shit is merely performative.
Yeah, and that's an issue. It's performative and all about a reason to argue, which is gross and counterproductive to actual problems in the world ( ... )
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I'd read that!
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Toxic fandom makes me get out so quickly. I found the Supernatural Fandom to have people who were so obsessed with the actors that it was not healthy feeling and that made me never really want to get into the fandom at all.
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