Comments | autumnlaughing: How long would you wait?

autumnlaughing

How long would you wait?

Jan 23, 2009 17:56

how long *could* you wait?

And what would happen, after that?

(Sometimes I amaze myself. I'd better get back to it..)

babies, bad days

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jennylisa January 23 2009, 23:08:37 UTC

Would holding the wee baby help or hurt? She is here for snuggling any time...

autumnlaughing January 24 2009, 02:57:26 UTC

...anytime after I'm sure that my throat feeling weird isn't something contagious that I could pass along by snuggling. Because I would feel SUPER horrible if you guys got even a little sick because of me. (Still no fever, no other symptoms... got worse when I was SUPER dehydrated this weekend, back to "mild to non-existent" now. Still 95% sure it's just allergies.)

But I do intend to take you up on that one... :) I keep feeling like I *should* feel jealous and weird, but I'm just so comfortable around you guys!

beginnersmind January 25 2009, 03:06:44 UTC

Hmmm... We went to school together, didn't we? I wasn't sure, but then I saw an entry in your journal about a friend named Forest. Small word!

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autumnlaughing January 24 2009, 04:01:51 UTC

Yeah.. I still wish I'd had kids before 30, but sometimes I know that I wouldn't be in nearly as good a place now if we had..

*hugs* I'm sure the universe will provide just what you need, just when you need it! (Maybe it doesn't want you too distracted from your studies now ;) )

phoenixdancer January 24 2009, 01:09:54 UTC

I agree with kiten...do it young. I wish I had more young rather than after I turned 30

autumnlaughing January 24 2009, 03:50:38 UTC

well, yeah. I actually turned 31 this year, but I wanted 3 kids by 30...

crepuscular January 24 2009, 01:46:58 UTC

I'm sorry. I know how it stinks.
I'd want to be under 35, just so you don't get labeled higher risk because of your age.. but obviously, lots of people do have babies when they're older than that.

autumnlaughing January 24 2009, 03:58:33 UTC

Yeah. We've revised The Plan, and I just included a clause that says 2011 or bust.

(You may not have caught the other fun - at 7 months in, I'd already gotten infertility appointments! I haven't actually ovulated since August. Probable PCOS, maybe other stuff, given my other issues.. but the RE appointment isn't until April, at which point I'll have changed insurances..)

crepuscular January 26 2009, 02:52:50 UTC

oh jeez! that confounds things. I wish you lots of luck!

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autumnlaughing January 24 2009, 04:02:36 UTC

God that sounds like fun... especially the part with the cats ;p