Second best?
I feel threatened by my boyfriend's ex of ten years ago. And I'm also impressed with and honored by the fact that he told me about her. I'm not sure which feeling is stronger. They were very close, would have gotten married if there wasn't so much pressure to do it at what was, for him, a young age. Their families are still close, he still cares
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Without knowing the situation completely, I'd say this was your insecurity more than the reality of things. He's obviously chosen to be with you, and not her. Caring about her safety and wellbeing is not the same as feeling that you can be in a relationship with that person.
You're the one he wants, and is in a relationship with. Hopefully he will be able to help you overcome these fears and make you feel more secure in this relationship...
Have you brought it up to him? I'm sure that if you told him in a caring way how you feel he'd understand... I don't think it would mean that he woukd stop caring about her, or her child, but at least he could help to comfort you...
*more hugs*
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