Hey..so yeh I'm new here. I'm from a small town in Tennessee- not really gay friendly- so I'm looking for people with whom I can relate to. I don't know of anything else to add XD.
Oh kiddo, just hang in there. You'll be off to college soon enough, where you'll meet other gay guys. Hopefully, you've applied to colleges far from your small home town, possibly in another state.
Now, I'm not trying to say anything negative about where you grew up, but, sometimes, to become your own person, you need to make a firm, clean break from your past. Being far from home will also help you with growing confident about your own self-reliance. (My advice totally reflects my own experience. I went to college in another state, 8 hrs. away. By the end of my first year, I was completely self-reliant. My parents had to adjust, and were probably a bit sad. However, they later always talked about how independent I was compared to my younger brothers, with a bit of pride.)
Lastly: when you do get to college … or even here online … just look for friends. (Yes, you're human, you're male, and you're a teen, ergo you have libido-in-overdrive. You'll be in college soon enough; you'll survive it. ^_^) When you try to look for
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Now, I'm not trying to say anything negative about where you grew up, but, sometimes, to become your own person, you need to make a firm, clean break from your past. Being far from home will also help you with growing confident about your own self-reliance. (My advice totally reflects my own experience. I went to college in another state, 8 hrs. away. By the end of my first year, I was completely self-reliant. My parents had to adjust, and were probably a bit sad. However, they later always talked about how independent I was compared to my younger brothers, with a bit of pride.)
Lastly: when you do get to college … or even here online … just look for friends. (Yes, you're human, you're male, and you're a teen, ergo you have libido-in-overdrive. You'll be in college soon enough; you'll survive it. ^_^) When you try to look for ( ... )
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