Heya. Just a newb! :)

[choclatethunder]

Hey everyone! My name's Kev. I'm new here and all that good jive. I live in Columbia, South Carolina (kinda lame lol but what can ya do). I'm 23, I study music, and I'm not really gay...but definitely not straight either haha. Call it pansexual, call it bisexual, call it whatever. But at any rate there is a fairly pressing recurring issue that I've

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[draion]

First of all, welcome! I like this introduction post a lot, since it brings up issues that also hover over my head a lot.

Just like you, I've found that a lot of LGBT (mainly gay, in my case) seem to intertwine sex with emotion. This is speaking generally, as you are, because it's evident that not everyone is like that. I'm real secure about being gay, and I've come across a lot of guys that were closeted, realizing they were gay, self-loathing, and the like. I'm really communicative and give a lot of effort to someone who's not feeling well with being gay, because I want to show them that there's nothing wrong with it at all. Well, each time I've done it, the guys seem to try to take it past a level of platonic love and appreciation for each other. The problem is that they tend to harbor insecurities about themselves (naturally... I mean, self-esteem shifts don't happen overnight), and I can't seem to like them. I'm not saying that I'm some magnet or anything, but I've noticed that the gay guys I've wanted to get close to

[choclatethunder]

Thanks for the welcome! lol Is it bad that as soon as I saw "first of all" I was already in defense mode?? haha