Funny that you bring up cliche cause I had a conversation involving that word a lot last night with Bre. In regards to your situation...Generalizing it to "any" guy definitely doesn't help "his" chances. I'm not sure why guys get this idea that compliments are what get the girl but it usually does the opposite. The way I see it...girls get compliments, generally, from guys all the time or at least they get some sort of glance, stupid line, some creepy guy staring or some other lame attempt at a guy getting close to them. Knowing that, I don't know why a guy talking one on one with a lady would think compliments will suddenly lean her in his direction. I've been guilty of this from time to time, maybe not in the same manner exactly but I do feel kinda dumb afterwards. Compliments can't hurt entirely but have a much more lasting impression when used sparingly and in an appropriate situation. If showered with them, you just start to get annoyed and then you rant about it in livejournal lol.
Hahaha, yeah but it wasnt like I was annoyed at the "compliment" I just didnt take it as a compliment at all. To me its not one. It sounds like one when you first hear it and then when mulled over, it gets manipulated and turns into the opposite. I dont care if I date anyone at this point. Sure it would be nice to get taken out, but Im not looking to rush into another long term serious thing right away. But when you tell me oh any guy would be lucky... and Im honestly seeing no one who even wants that opportunity to be that "lucky guy" its pretty much a slap in the face. And this could just be me being cynical, but still, thats how Im feeling about it at the moment.
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And Jami's dumb. The End.
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