Friday night, Nandarong's in K-town. Night of drama.

[axistence]

in the famous words of a wiseman, "girls are nothing but trouble". Seeing how that is much of an overgeneralization, I shall reword it to say, "what is it about girls that makes them like to create unnecesarry drama and extra trouble"? *hides in bunker

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[blinkyeyed]

if/when you get an answer, let me know. i'm curious to this as well.
for the most part, i choose to separate myself from other females. it takes a lot longer for me to consider a girl "my friend" than it does with a guy. i hate seeing that kind of thing you described and don't even want to be associated with someone who does that.

*kinda harsh, but I got over it.* =P

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[axistence]

so i take it you have more guy friends then girl friends? Isn't it a lil hard sometimes when you have some *ahem* girl talk?

[fusionbliss]

Darling, hence why I'm so close to you. Luckily you added in the disclaimer, if not you'll be getting some serious trashing when you're home. Oh oh, you're so describing my sister to the T with all that "drama". Oh well, some girls got it, some girls don't. I'd rather be me, less hassle, less name calling.

[pisaller]

*cough cough* Eekkksss... lucky thing there was a disclaimer! :)

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[axistence]

Yea. I wouldn't want to get a concussion from the flying bricks ya know? :P

[ladymandarin]

I love Nandarong. They have this fabulous banana-mocha-thing that, I swear, turns my mouth into a mini party. *laugh* Anyway, to your question.

I don't agree with all those stupid games and neither do I participate in them. However, I do know people who indulge in such activities and I've asked them in the past why they do what they do. Most of the answers I've gotten are "Men made us this way" which sparked a huge (but friendly) debate with each other and "Keep 'em guessing" because supposedly, like you said, they don't want to seem to easy or be labeled a slut. An implied answer was to avoid getting hurt and making sure that he knows that other people would love to get to know them. *sigh*

It just sounds too complicated, doesn't it? And this is exactly why I don't play these games. *laugh* Too many rules and regulations.

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[axistence]

Men made them this way? Its just like the case of suing McD's because it made them fat. Choices.

Its all in the game of love mutual attraction? LOL

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[ladymandarin]

I never said I agreed with their answers. *laugh* I think the Oracle in The Matrix summed it up pretty well when she said that it's not about making the choices but understanding why you made them. In this case, I'm not sure they understand why they do what they do because sometimes it is counterproductive and backfires.

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[axistence]

That was a pretty prompt reply!!

Sometimes I wonder wether they're so wrapped up in the game that they forget to be real and true to themselves.