sometimes I wonder why I put up with it...

[ayla_kun]

So...I havent written in awhile I know...and I doubt that anyone really reads these but w.e. Anyways I just recently got a boyfriend named Jarrod that I work with. Sweet guy and everything. Except for one thing...HES SO FUCKING JEALOUS! First he accuses me of cheating on him with his best friend Tony and then today he goes off on me thinking I

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[themugen]

Not being able to communicate with him and in a calm manner at that isn't good. It seems to me that he's not gonna try and change. Also if he is ultra jealous it shows that he doesn't trust you. Shown by the way he accuses and reacts. You say it's a reoccurring thing and it seems that with time it's one of those things that will only get worse. In my opinion you should really think about what is going on and how that might change or progress in the future and decide what you should do from there. In the end it's only your decision and it looks like ,in my opinion, that he isn't making effort to change or even trust you.

thanks for the advice

[ayla_kun]

Hey you...thankyou for the advice hun. I sure needed it. I would normally just break up with him, but I think the reason why is I have been alone for so long and I was so shocked that someone wanted me that I really just don't want to lose him. I constantly think "what if no-one will ever want me anymore." That thought runs in my head everyday,I just don't want to be alone forever. Am I making any sense?

Re: thanks for the advice

[themugen]

You are making sense in that I that I understand what you are saying. But I do think no matter what you shouldn't settle for less. You shouldn't let yourself be stepped on or anything because you feel that way. If he's really jealous t might be insecurities in himself or something. Try and talk once again and maybe try and approaching it in different matters. But if he is someone who just can't listen to what you say then it seems he doesn't really care about how you feel. Listening is part of caring and he seems too wrapped up in what he 's thinking to care about what you are thinking and feeling.