hmmmm ... that's a tough question. i'm a big fan of jumping ship. i don't know why i feel that way, since i'm one of the biggest serial monogamists ever. i guess it depends on what you want out of a relationship vs. what the partner wants. if they're never going to meet, then maybe that's it. but if the problems are just a matter of getting over challenges, then it could totally be worth working on it.
I'm more in to being completely honest all the time, though I have come to realize that this completely unnerves most people (read: MEN). After years of ambiguous attraction and misreading signs I have discovered that I am completely inept at game-playing. Hence blunt honesty. I agree with bug though that I would much rather leave them wanting more, though it never happens that way. I hate it when people don't return my calls, and therefore am unable to leave anybody hanging (even when they deserve it a thousand times over). And what happens when 150% becomes 300%? How long can a priviledge be abused before it is taken away? (A question I ask myself often...)
I guess the point is that women are incredibly accomodating (double entendre : yes). Sometimes to a fault.
I can't be dishonest because I get too confused. Lying is so much work!
I'm trying to be sensitive to other people's feelings, but when my own get hurt in the process, I have to wonder. This actually isn't about a man, or isn't only about a man. I've been let down by two very important people lately and it stinks.
so the deal is that my nutritionist thinks I should see an eating disorder counselor. I kinda think that'd be a good idea. Adam is adamently against therapy of all kinds. So if I do start some therapy, do I tell him about it or keep it to myself? It's not really insincere, just protection.
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hmmmm ... that's a tough question. i'm a big fan of jumping ship. i don't know why i feel that way, since i'm one of the biggest serial monogamists ever. i guess it depends on what you want out of a relationship vs. what the partner wants. if they're never going to meet, then maybe that's it. but if the problems are just a matter of getting over challenges, then it could totally be worth working on it.
i hope things are going okay ........
it was wonderful to talk the other day!
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Why am I such a wuss?
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I guess the point is that women are incredibly accomodating (double entendre : yes). Sometimes to a fault.
But I'm not bitter. Really.
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I'm trying to be sensitive to other people's feelings, but when my own get hurt in the process, I have to wonder. This actually isn't about a man, or isn't only about a man. I've been let down by two very important people lately and it stinks.
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I don't know...
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