it's going to take a lot of guts to do this...

Feb 14, 2005 13:40

chemlab let out early, so i'm outside waiting for physlab ( Read more... )

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aznpegasi3003 February 14 2005, 21:51:49 UTC
:/
yeah...my dad doesn't talk to me though...just randomly out of the blue he asked for my email and asked me about my life. but i feel like he thinks he can trick me into trusting him because i'm still 8 or whatever.

men are stupid.

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schalaislost February 14 2005, 23:18:31 UTC
Perhaps he doesn't know how to express himself? My grandpa doesn't talk to anyone like he loves them except to really small kids. People find him cold. But when he writes letters, you see a man you didn't know existed. I'm not saying this is your dad but just a thought. My step-mom's step-dad was a military sargent and doesn't express emotions. My step-mom had to suck it up when her mother died and she was left with him and they don't know how to act around one another. They just don't know each other. And yet, in the mail I'll find cards from him to her and they're the most sympathetic and caring cards that you wonder if someone forced his hand.

I don't think men are stupid. I think they're strange.

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aznpegasi3003 February 14 2005, 23:54:15 UTC
i would go in depth about who my father is, but that's not really for everyone to hear. i'll just say that i definitely know he knows how to express himself. he's just proved time and time again what a liar and fake he is.

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evilpnkbunnie February 14 2005, 21:03:01 UTC
heather, you are an unbelievably strong person. no matter what he does or has done, he will not change the fact that you are who are you are: a person with more strength of character at age 18 than most people will ever possess, with a great sense of humor and talented beyond all reason. i love you, llama mama!!

*HUGSHUGSHUGS*

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aznpegasi3003 February 14 2005, 21:52:27 UTC
lol
thankyoo vikkiii
i love oyu too
*hug*
happy valentine's day!

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dolphinsapphire February 14 2005, 21:34:34 UTC
i'm behind you 100 percent. I can't say that i know how you feel because I don't - i can't imagine it. but i'll do what i can in saying that i'm with you entirely - i read your lj which is me, in fact, listening. just letting you know that

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aznpegasi3003 February 14 2005, 21:52:44 UTC
:)

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schalaislost February 14 2005, 23:15:17 UTC
To hell with apathy. I care and I think that you're brave. Keeping things to oneself is non-productive. One does not heal by ignoring the pain. And so I wish you strength talking to your dad about his neglect and I hope that you can start to heal after you have.

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pikapoy February 15 2005, 03:40:13 UTC
let him know that he can't get away with what he did. i am proud of you for stepping up and confonting him about it. i want you to know that i am here for you, even if you are a hokie :)

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aznpegasi3003 February 15 2005, 04:19:47 UTC
;) thanks.
GO HOOS!
*glug*

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