Heartless & Bitchy

[azooey]

You heartless bitches, take this! Rock on!

My picks -

1. Does the sight of an incredibly handsome man turn you off, because too many of them have room-temperature IQ's, and obnoxious or non-existent personalities?

Inflated sigh. That's half the reason why I have been banished to singlehood in heaven. I think i should seriously amend that stereotype

Comments

[sweta_mogra]

I read the bitchitorial there often. Its quite interesting and true each time.

[azooey]

oooo baby! And you have not told me abt it once!!

[sweta_mogra]

Must read the July 10th column.
It talks about the real crux of what fucks so many people up. Its very well written.

[themadman]

That eye in your userpic... is it yours?

[azooey]

loud as in "characterized by high volume and intensity"? Yes, very much.
loud as in "offensive"? Oh yeah, all the time.

This might give you an idea... I asked a few friends to give me 3 adjectives to describe my communication style for an essay I have to write. Here are some of the responses:

Loud and over-the-top
Loud, Fog Horn Loud, I-Beat-The-Shit-Out-Of-Jet-Engines Loud.
I-Broke-The-Decibel-Meter Loud
Don't-need-no-stinkin'-communication-satellites Loud

Bah!

[anonymous]

Hey, me was just having a little fun. Too good a question to *not* have fun :)

~C.

[azooey]

I know, i just gave you my head on a platter! But you were obviously not the only one.. :(

[themadman]

What's wrong with assertive and opinionated women?

[azooey]

i guess most ppl are just not used to taking strong words from women (does that make me less of a woman :-/ ). But there are these fucked up men who find them "interesting" but "hazardous to life & property".

Caught off-guard

[prashu]

Nothing wrong with assertive and opiniated women, but i guess it catches the average male off-guard and hurts his male ego, that is used to being heard out and given importance
Won't say i am the above-average male or any such thing, but it takes some time getting used to....especially considering the "traditional" conditioning we all have got to hear for decades.
Assertive + Opinionated = Direspectful
And its not limited to girls only......but more so for them
Its one of these unending coffee-toffee debates :)

Re: Caught off-guard

[themadman]

Well, I'm anything but the traditional Indian guy, and I love assertive and opinionated women.

Have you HAD IT with people telling you that you are TOO LOUD, TOO ASSERTIVE, or TOO OPINIONATED?

[anonymous]

so..in the simplistic view of an engineer, who sees things as black and white (a binary concept), devoid of shades of gray..
is being loud/assertive/opinionated good or bad?
-Ash

Re: Have you HAD IT with people telling you that you are TOO LOUD, TOO ASSERTIVE, or TOO OPINIONATED

[azooey]

Ahem. A bunch of us recently tried to input 'loud', 'assertive' and 'opinionated' into a logic gate. It blew up :( so, im guessing, without the assurance of binary logic tables, that its bad.

check the quotes in HB site

[a_flawed_genius]

Those quotes are awesome. Whenever I feel low I just go there and BAM I suddenly return to my old aggressive and ambitious self.