Mile markers that make you want to stab throw pillows with a screwdriver

[azure_eyed_lion]

So today is pretty much the year marker for the last time I saw my ex in person. Next month (coincidentally around the party time) is the true one year marker for when I became single

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[ruakh]

> Was I weak to let go early? Was I strong because I refused to let myself be treated poorly. Should I have attempted to tough it out longer and see if things resolved themselves? Would it have been worth the tormenting of my mind and heart to do so? Can one justify such torment for holding out with the hope, that things will get better? After all, one can only hold on for so long. Bend only until the breaking point is reached. Was I weak or strong? Or in the end, was I actually both?

There's no right answer. You did the right thing for you, which was therefore the right thing for her as well.