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last night something horrible happened. i think i lost a friend. no, they didnt die, but right now it looks like the friendship is over. things had been slowly getting worse between us for a while now. last night i find out that they cant even talk to me anymore, and that they are happier with out me in their life. as much as this persons means to
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the same thing happened to me a couple months ago. i felt like i was putting 125% into a couple of friendships but was only getting 75% out of it. i was just tired of hanging on, as much as it hurt me, and so i knew i just had to take it for what it was and move on.
you have to understand that people change...you cant expect them not to. as much as we all wish that we could be frozen in time as the people we are right now, that can never happen. you have to take the learning experiences as you come. keep you head up. think of everything you have learned and could potentially keep learning because of your friendship. while the relationship might not be over, it probably will be different, and you should appreciate what each of you bring to each other.
hang in there. tomorrow is another day.
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