"The beautiful thing about friendship: True friends can grow separately without growing apart."

[b_u_t_t_e_r_fly]

"A friendship that can cease has never been real."

Comments

[apoptosis_x]

Hey gal, sms you... hope you are fine.
I guess you have tried your very best already.
I do not exactly know what is going on right now.
And do not be too hard on yourself ok?

** hugs **

Anything just drop me a msg or call.

[b_u_t_t_e_r_fly]

Thanks for calling me, big butterfly :) Rui said he asked you to call. Appreciate it. See you for your "SWEET ESCAPE" soon!

[colt81]

chey... Next time u call Andrew urself and ask him to call me la..

Ray

[cyrstboi]

I believe strongly in cause and effects.

I just ask of you (butterfly) to reflect on what has happened. Recall the incident with a calm mind and you will have be in a better state to deal with this.

No matter what, you have me. :)

[b_u_t_t_e_r_fly]

Babie, thank you for everything.
And you know you will always have me too no matter what :)

[thoburn]

I'm very sure he treasures you. I guess too many things happened on his side as well. don't be discouraged. since u hv tried ur best to bring the 2 of them back together, it is enough. dont give urself too much pressure. and dont allow ppl's problems to become yours. a clear mind is impt if u wana do counselling.

and abt bitching...hahah. seriously, I hate it tt LJ has become a bitching tool for many. disagreements..conflicts..these r personal. it is between any 2 individuals. Words has its limitation. so, it is not possible for others to know wot exactly is happening between them. Best way to settle conflicts...do it the guys way!...meet up and trash out everything with one another in the presence if a mediator. do it online oni causes more misunderstanding.

well, since u hv done everything, don't be upset. hugs

[b_u_t_t_e_r_fly]

LJ is really very bitchy at times. Sigh.
Some hurtful words should be avoided but not everyone have that much self-control.

Yup i have no regrets cos i've tried my best and my conscience is clear. Thanks David :)

[colt81]

See! even my bestfriend know what's going on...

so smart of David...

:P

Ray

[thoburn]

yeap, self-control is a personal decision. The tongue is like a double edged sword. capable of edifing and destroying. with sharp words, it only takes seconds to open up profound wounds in people. To heal them, it could take years..or even decades. I reali love this saying.."sticks and stones may break bones, but sharp words can cut the soul...so deeply." May we all be reminded of tt.

[xiao_prince]

don give up on each other ok!

[b_u_t_t_e_r_fly]

I've never given up on him. Never will. Or else i won't be fighting so hard for this friendship.
=)

[colt81]

fighting so hard

ya la Drag Queenie who slapped turtle so hard!

Ray

[b_u_t_t_e_r_fly]

Nonsense.
I never laid a finger on you hor!

[anonymous]

LAMERS! GO CLUB EACH WEEK AND FIND MORE FRIENDS.

NELSON

[street_jr]

fuck off bitch dont u dare say anything about my best friend!

[b_u_t_t_e_r_fly]

Babie Jackie, don't be vulgar.

Nelson cares so much for me, ask me to club and find more friends. He's correct what. Even the worst people i meet at clubs probably make better friends than a person like him.

=)

[colt81]

ah yoh! let NELSON be la ... at least we dare to show face and be proud even though Drag is still a Drag!

Ray