marriage question

[babiephat]

what do you all think about marriage.
do you think it's allright that a couple that is going to be together forever should not bother to get married?
or
do you think that if a couple is going to be together forever they should eventually be married?

Comments

[babiephat]

i agree to that. thanks alot nelly. ;x

[suffering]

i think marriage isn't a necessity..cause half the people who get married eventually get divorced anyway.
but back to your question..hm..well based on my opinion..i don't believe there's such a thing as together forever, no matter how real it may seem now, and how good it may seem in the future, i doubt there's such a thing as 'together forever'. but if you really think so..and you know he feels the same..then marriage is an option. but marriage isn't as simple as you think it is. cause once you get married every single piece of thing you own is half his, no matter who bought it and stuff. so in the end if the marriage doesn't work out, and you get divorced..half your wealth is his.
but uhm, lol..so in simple terms..if you want that person to be legally yours, you should get married. but otherwise..it's the 21th century..marriage isn't a necessity anymore.
but ain't you still kinda young to be thinking 'bout marriage anyway? >_<

-keL

[babiephat]

lol . i don't mind material possessions being owned by us both? i just feel marriage is a must no matter what is involved.. especially money issues.

[suffering]

yeah i understand where you're coming from..but like i'm just saying if a marriage doesn't work out, you're gonna be screwed emotionally and physically..so why risk both factors of yourself. but you know marriage is completely an option nowadays..unlike back then when it was necessary, but i know everyone has their own perspective on things, so i'll morally support you ;p

-keL

[babiephat]

thanx ma. that means alot to me but i see what you mean <3 stay sweet.

[cubanshorty]

marriage is a gift from God that binds two people together forever. it is a covenant between God and the couple. i believe that if two people want to be together forever, they should get married. if they are willing to commit to being together forever to each other, why not show it in front of the family and most of all to God? they don't have to be married right away. they should wait that way they can fulfill the financial responsibilities of marriage and they have enough to put it. but yes, they should eventually be married.

[babiephat]

thanks vero i also believe this strongly.

[cubanshorty]

:] you're welcome.

[nycslave]

if you want my honest opinion
i say:

FUCK MARRIAGE
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I say this because, What does marriage have to offer that living together with someone full time doesnt? a title? a ring?
is there no other way to love some one unconditionaly without being married? i say, save your $15,000+ for a wedding

[babiephat]

hmmm.

[nycslave]

heh, is that a good hmm or a bad hmm

[babiephat]

lol. just a thoughtful hmmm

[brainsita]

i think if you love someone and youre young you shouldn't get married. marrige at such a young age i don't think is healthy. i think before you marry someone make sure you've experience everything and anything therefore when you're married you won't have any regrets and what if's and so forth

[babiephat]

sorry brain but i never said i was going to get married now. lol. (read my updated post)

[brainsita]

lol i know but because i'm me i always answer with a good answer but with an answer that isn't the answer to the question?

[babiephat]

lmao. *beso*