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Missing Bill too much

Apr 29, 2005 00:34

Hello everyone in LJ land! Today was an o.k. day I guess. Got up at 8 and went to work. Work was the same. Bill's mom called me at work today from her cell which wasn't a local number so I couldn't call her back on it. So, I tried to call her house at about 2 and she wasn't home. Well, I called back at 4 when I got off work and Bill answered on the ( Read more... )

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mxdluv_21376 April 29 2005, 11:54:56 UTC

Hey girl.......well, I can relate to what you are going through now. As much as I tried to act like I didn't give a rat's ass when Joe and I first split, it hurt like hell. We had been together since 1996 (actually, we met exactly one year to the day of me having Marcus). So, it took longer than I was willing to let on to let go of my feelings for him. Yes, 3 weeks really isn't that long to get over someone, even if they treated you badly. Give your heart AND mind time...don't rush it. If you do rush it, you will only be fooling yourself as to how you truly feel about everything. I know you love Kyle too, but to be in love, your heart and mind have to be on the same page. Right now, it doesn't like they are just yet. I am not saying that to put you down...Lord knows I have been in the same situation. Just give them time, and it will all become clearer for you, and easier. :-D

Love ya!
~~*Candice*~~

ladypanther1962 April 29 2005, 12:33:44 UTC

. Just give them time, and it will all become clearer for you, and easier.

COULDN'T SAID IT ANY BETTER MYSELF WE ALL KNOW what you are going thur. granted i have been there my self i don't think i was in love with troy right off the bat we moved to quickly. my mind and body was there but my heart was still in texas. BUT it does get better as time goes by and right now i know you think you're in love with kyleo.but you'r only on a rebound you may love him but not in love there is a big difference. the heart is a funny thing. as mxdluv says give it time and guard you're heart.

baby_101 April 30 2005, 05:20:44 UTC

thank ya'll for the advice. I'm so scared to give myself time to grieve. I guess that's why I rushed into things with Kyle. I know that once I start my grieving period I'll turn into a sad, depressed ball of mush that won't stop crying. I don't want to become that.

mxdluv_21376 April 30 2005, 14:12:41 UTC

Hun, it's ok to have a day or so to cry and be down.....you are human and have feelings. The thing is, you can't allow it to consume you for too long, because if you do, Bill *wins*! Do you see what I am saying? But..... DON'T start your grieving period until you are sure you are ready. It may take a lot out of you. Just remember that we are here if you need to talk, ok?

Love ya!
~~*Candice*~~