Advice Needed...

[baby_d]

I was chatting with this guy on MSN recently, and we exchanged mobile numbers. He phoned me on Saturday night, and we had a very HOT conversation, and were chatting for over an hour. But I need some advice. He wants to meet up, and the things he's talking about getting up to are pretty much my wildest fantasies!! But I don't really know him

Comments

[anonymous]

Hi, I have never met anyone from Lj in person before, but would if I had the opportunity. I would just do the following:

meet in a public place
not give my home phone or home address to him
have the sex at his place or a hotel ( preferably a hotel that he pays for)
let a friend know where you are going to be and when to expect a call from you
take a cab to the hotel, but tell him a friend dropped you off and will wait to drive you home

Tell me, what kind of things does this guy want to do to you that are your wildest fantasies???

[the_kats_meow]

I have, and there really is no way of being 100% certain of safety in terms of STDs (but then again, that's the same with everyone really)

however, safety in terms of meeting, always make sure someone you trust knows where you're going and set a contact time so that she/he will try and call u to make sure you're alright...that way, if you dont feel comfortable, they can also come and get you...

other than that, not much I can say, except have fun! ;)

I must agree

[captsexybiatch]

Some people are crazy and you will want someone to know what, when, and with who. Also DON"T forget to update them when you have a change of plans or they FREAK!

Hey, Drop us a Line, OK?

[satyrnoir]

Want to make sure you're OK...this was a scary way to stop posting. :)

Re: Hey, Drop us a Line, OK?

[baby_d]

*waves*

Everything's fine - thank you so much for your concern though - I'm really touched!! *big hugs*

I promise I'll let people know when or if I meet this guy, and then I'll let you all know when I'm back again.

Thanks again for caring!!!

Be realistic

[captsexybiatch]

A random guy says: Some fantasies are best left that way. Some are just too hard to pull off. You know that ones that would require alot of logistics or feats of massive strength. In just trying to pull them off alot of the fantasy is ruined.

If you are going to meet this guy then one of your fantasies should be fucking some random guy. If not then you will feel strange and that will ruin it. So if that is not your thing meet him once without sex and get to know him. Not a date but just to hang out.

That is my theory