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[babyfox876]

I don't believe in having close friendships with people anymore. It's not a trust issue that I'm having, it's more of a resignation to the fact that I am unreliable, so why should I expect someone else to be there for me? Doesn't work that way. I just don't think people have the capacity to be in honest and genuinely loving relationships.

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[anonymous]

www.nomorewalls.com

Try this workshop (lifechange). If you are open, it will change your relationships, your perceptions, your identity, and hence, your life.

[babyfox876]

What a bad way to push Christianity. Just because I want distance from people does not necessarily mean I am creating distance from God. In fact, it's just the opposite. I'm hoping to stop making people the pillar of my life in order to accomplish affinity with Him.

But thanks, anonymous workshop pusher, for being "holier than thou"

I really haven't had enough of THAT in my life.

[anonymous]

Not at all what I was trying to say. I just know that when I chose to stop trusting those who hurt me, it got a lot harder to be close to people, and I'm convinced we're on earth in order to be relational. Going to lifechange helped me dig though that and learn why I was taking those actions, and what I could do about them.

I made the comment because I thought it could potentially give you a tool that would make you happier. You don't seem very happy.

I guess I'll sign in next time. This is Jesse Kremer, and I really don't mean you any harm, and I certainly did not mean to offend you. If you ever want to hear, I can explain lifechange and what it did for me.