I can't answer the last one, cause I think both are the right answer. I dont' think you're a fool... but I think that the unhealthy relationship is not whats best for your kids if that makes sense.
Im not a fool, but sometimes i feel that i am for staying with him... and i only hurt myself more and more the longer i stay with him... he will never change and he has stated that he will never change, so what do i keep fighting for if he doesnt change... i feel that i am the one that changes myself for him and he does nothing for me.. but oh well guess thats how the cookie crumbles... I give it another 2 months before we have another big blow up about something... and we will take a seperation... we have agreed to that.... if while seperated we cant get things back on track then i will just file for divorce.. no lawyers involved we can do it without them.. we have come to agreements on custody of stacia anyway.... and the things in the house... well thts bout it for now.. miss ya much and will tlk to you soon.. Love ya J
The last one was hard for me to answer! I REALLY think you and Chad need to part ways, but you need to do what you think is best. He is doing nothing for you and the kids and I honestly think he doesn't even give a shit. Sorry for that last comment, but people don't tell you they wish you would go ahead a kill yourself if they really cared!!
we have discussed that the next time a blow up happens (which i give two months) we are going to seperate... and your right if someone does love you they wouldnt say tht.. he wants split custody of stacia only because he doesnt want to pay 500.00 a month in child support... but i think i have a pretty fair chance of winning full custody if i really wanted it... in two years she will be able to decide her self who she wants to live with full time anyway, so i will jst give him the joint custody for now, and in two years when shes 12 i will take him back to court and she can decide who she wants to live with... im working so much right now jst to stay away from him because i dont really want to be around him right now... so im working two jobs again... yup thats me work aholic... but i will find time to spend with my kids if i need a day off from my second job, my mom said she would fill in for me a few days a week at the restraunt... so i know tht if i really need a break from the restraunt i can count on my mom.. but i dont wnt to be
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well thts bout it for now.. miss ya much and will tlk to you soon..
Love ya
J
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