I am the lazy one! Please, I beg to differ! You would never understand how much effort i put into raising my children to be independent and fully satisfied with life! Laziness is an everyday part of our worlds thinking. Laziness is giving my kid the breast just because i don't feel like taking 5 minutes to try to find out the real problem.
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Some of us believe researchers at Harvard before we believe a Christian extremist with no degree:
http://www.news.harvard.edu/gazette/1998/04.09/ChildrenNeedTou.html
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I would like to ask you a couple of things- fine, you say that Babywise works for you... BUT...
~ Where is the evidence that 'disciplining' a baby works? An infant is not going to understand cause-and-effect or "good" and "bad" behaviour. I challenge you to find me a scientific study proving that.
~ Lazyness is allowing your kids to eat sleep and scream when ever they feel like it...Laziness is also not reviewing the spelling when you post to LJ, too, so I hardly think you're an authority on the matter ( ... )
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I just want to make it clear that i didn't write my journal to be corrected by every Tom, Dick or Harry. I wrote it to respond to a reply that someone gave me! Forgive me if it was painful to read...you should have stopped! No one asked you to read it or reply to it.
About reading the book! Try finishing it! I have NEVER made my kids sit in a messy diaper, not fed them when they were hungry or not held them when they needed some love! I simply meet the need at hand! No where in book does it say to deprive a child or anything close to it!
Scheduling. My kids are on a schedule and yes we follow it close. However, the schedule is nothing that can't be changed! We live in a changing world and my schedule changes when it needs to be changed!
By the way, if we are both raising happy kids let's allow eachother to do the best that we can do!
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