Need to get this off my chest...
Friday we all went out to the swim teams house all dressed up to their lame party because Michelle (roommate) could meet up with a sketchy guy named Dan.
[Background: Last year she slept over his house and he asked if she was still in love with Brian (ex bf) and she said yes so he stopped talking to her altogether. He just recently started talking to her a few weeks ago.]
Anyway, I almost knocked a bitch out because she was giving me shit, but then I just walked away. The party was lame so we came back here and Michelle had been debating on whether or not she wanted to stay with Dan. We all come back, me, Geoff, and Michelle stop here to change and lay down for a few cuz my feet were killing me, and then we were all gonna go up to Steph and Jaimie's. The second we walk in Dan calls Michelle. She decides to invite him over without asking anyone. She was supposed to sleep at Steph and Jaimie's, and tells me that Dan is coming. I ask if she asked Steph/Jaimie if it was ok that he came, and she said "well it's just another person..." and then texts Jaimie only because I said something. Also, at around this time 2 guys from her town (Taunton) call and say they're in Amherst and getting a cab to come visit her. This was at 1:30. Me and Geoff decide to go up without her and she says she'll be up as soon as her friends get here.
Soon it's 2:30.
Then it's 3:30.
I text her at 3:30 asking what's going on and she doesn't respond. I give her 10 minutes and call her. Her friends JUST GOT THERE but she'll leave whenever I come back so I say "okay, SEE YOU SOON". Me and Geoff leave 10 minutes later and get back to my room. Dan is passed out in her bed, one of her friends is sitting at MY desk with a piece of printer paper in his hand talking about how they should ROLL A BLUNT in it, and the other friend is walking around in the hallway. She ever so gently wakes up Dan and gets her friends out, but not before giving me looks that say "Please don't kill me" and telling me how much she loves me, and then goes and sleeps at Dan's. I end up crying because she is inconsiderate.
Saturday:
She comes back, me and Geoff went to get food, she naps, while me and Geoff go with Steph, Ashley, and Jaimie to go see Zach and Miri but end up getting a flat tire on 116. We end up taking a long ass time because Jaimie doesn't have a lugwrench, and so she feels the need to buy us all dinner at the Diner. We get back and Michelle has bad news:
1. She told Zane (guy she was dating, broke up with, and then chose to be exclusive-with-no-title with) that she didn't wanna have sex (even though they were talking about fucking on Halloween since they started dating a month ago) because she feels like he's too emotionally invested and will get hurt.
2. Zane (frat brother) tells her he doesn't want her at the frat house that night.
3. Michelle gets pissed because she expected Zane not to kick her out for some reason.
I decide to talk to her about it and give her the truth. I asked her what she expected Zane to do. I also ask if she told Zane about Dan, the real reason why she didn't wanna fuck him because her and Dan slept together on Friday and hooked up. She tells me that she thinks no matter what she does or doesn't do with Zane will end up hurting him. In her words "If I hook up with him, I'll end up hurting him". I responded with "So you hooked up with another guy instead...." Then I talked to her being inconsiderate on Friday, which of course she didn't understand. She ended up going home last night, and I had a great night not dealing with any shit.
Needless to say I am sick and tired of being the recipient of the bitching and complaining, and the one time I speak my mind and tell her the truth without sugarcoating it she gets mad. At me. Fuck this.