Comments | bad_skippy: Battles Not Worth Fighting

bad_skippy

Battles Not Worth Fighting

Jan 26, 2009 18:07

This was partly inspired by someone else's conversation, a comment, and a certian mom who will remain nameless, and a DBB. Just blah-blah-blah ( Read more... )

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koga_youkai January 27 2009, 07:29:20 UTC

I dont know if you read my note or not, but thats not exactly the context I meant. People shouldnt put with up shitty relationships *unless of course they deserve them*. But sometimes, you need to give people a chance to change before you completely jump ship. Thats what I meant. =} Faith is such a universal topic...Faith in yourself. in relationships. in love. I think faith is just a little necessary so we dont all turn into bitter bitches. =} I wrote the note because my friend JT is perhaps the most clueless person about women, because he hasnt had a real woman role model in his life. He only sees these tramps his friends hang out with. Its really sad. I guess, I just dont want him to end up completely bitter. =/ He's too young for that shit.

bad_skippy January 30 2009, 02:32:57 UTC

Unilke myself, who at the ripe old age of 31 is entitled to her bitterness. But I'm good with that, it's kinda tangy. Like Tang. But not as frightening, or orange.

koga_youkai February 3 2009, 14:38:24 UTC

My bitterness tastes like ecto-cooler. =} YUM.

cateye_gal January 29 2009, 00:59:41 UTC

Aw, poor Suzy. Sounds like someone I know. It sucks waiting for someone to change. You know they are capable, but for some reason, they either just don't give a shit about themselves or anyone else. They are blind and selfish and can talk the talk. R-poo talked alot, but nothing happened... for years and I waited like a loyal puppy dog. Words and faith did nothing for me. My time and happiness became more valuable than to keep waiting... especially when the learned behavior of the R-poo was used to me doing laundry, paying bills and not getting attention. Blar. Had to see it for myself, just took forever. Everyone knew but me. Then I switched to all-in KMB, letting myself become more vulnerable then ever and playing the waiting game, only on a promise. We'll see how this works, now that my trust issues are fucked up. But who's aren't? I had no father figure. I'm making this relationship shit up as I go along ( ... )

bad_skippy January 30 2009, 02:37:13 UTC

One would think so. Crap behavior should equal hit the curb, but it doen't. Hell, I've held on to shit that wasn't worth it for too long, and it took me a good long while to come to grips with it, some people just aren't worth it in the end. Eh, live and learn. At least it didn't take me 5 some odd years (which is how long mom's been seeing the FT, and he was a POS from the get-go).