i changed this post up some because one of my best friends requested that i take it down because it was offensive to him so tried to make it less offensive
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yeah, i understand that and i'm still sort of pissed at the family too but i still hate preachers and not just for that reason. i hate preachers for their intentions, the reason they get up in the morning, the things that i believe drives them. that bothers me a lot more.
Eric hunny you know I love you so just remember that. I think the funeral was more for the parents, for them to have comfort which should come first. The memorial was more for us, to talk and express our love for robert. But I think the candle thing was weird but I just saw how beautiful my sister was up there so I let it go. But thats all I have to say and I'm sorry you're upset. Call me and we'll hang out ok? <333 Sondra
i know, i know, i'm here for you too. i know why the funeral was the way it was but it was still very lacking of rob and the memorial pissed me off sooo bad because i thought it was going to just be about rob and us but it still ended up being about god and that just burns my ass. i don't really feel like talking about the candle thing any more, it makes me pretty fuckin mad. well, i guess i'll give you a call in the next couple of days as long as you won't you get in trouble from your man for hanging out with me.....haha. oh well, holla holla.
eric, ok first of all.. the candle thing.. what we did had nothing to do with how well you knew him.. we had about 20 candles... the reason some peoples names were written on there is because those were the people we were alomost sure were going to show up...and i felt as if those people would have gotten offended if they didnt get one... i didnt know his sister was coming til she showed up.. this thing was very last minute... if we had enough money we would have gotten everyone one... if it "offended" you that much then buy it yourself.. i put every penny i had into that day and i wish you didnt feel disincluded or whatever but i tried my hardest... it was nothing about a popularity contest... incase you didnt notice i told EVERYONE that they could talk... or do anything they wanted to remember rob..i mean if the candle meant that much.. i would have given you mine.... i think the most disrespectful thing about that day is the fact that you walked out... i dont know if you knew this but robert DID believe in god.... and since we
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well i can understand the shortage. i really can. if you would have called me i would have pitched in to get more candles. but as you said "and i felt as if those people would have gotten offended if they didn't get one" what about the many people that didn't get one? i don't care about a candle with a dixie cup around it. it's the fact that some people were included and some weren't. some people that were included didn't like robert and robert didn't like them are they the ones that would have gotten offended if they didn't get one? the chruch offended me because the only reason i showed up is because i thought it was going to be a time for the people who knew rob and i didn't think there was going to be any preaching. i guess i just don't need to go to funerals because i have found that there CAN NOT be a funeral in a church with out the preacher trying to recruit for his church. i guess that's not offensive to you guys but it is to me, so if anyone else dies. I WON'T BE THERE. i shouldn't have gone and i appoligize to anyone
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I think the funeral was more for the parents, for them to have comfort which should come first.
The memorial was more for us, to talk and express our love for robert. But I think the candle thing was weird but I just saw how beautiful my sister was up there so I let it go. But thats all I have to say and I'm sorry you're upset. Call me and we'll hang out ok?
<333 Sondra
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