HSJ White Love

[bafabifi]

Warning: This post contains extensive discussion of mental health issues that may be triggering.Hello everyone, how are you feeling today? I hope you are well and happy :) Before I get down to HSJ new single White Love, I just have a little rant. I apologise before hand if anyone feel offended. I'm not trying to use HSJ and link it to the rant, but

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[chiyakenyu]

Jonghyun's death really took a toll on me as well ;;u;; and everything around it makes me so so angry. I agree with everything you just wrote - it's okay to not be okay, but society needs to understand that. This is the worst kind of wakeup call, and I hope they learn from this.

but on a happier note, thank you so much for sharing White Love!! <3

[hestolemyheartt]

Thanks for sharing!
I hope this news with Jonghyun will spread awareness for the severity and importance on mental health, so maybe we can at least get one good thing out of it.

[jendaiyu]

tbh as a person with depression and anxiety, Jonghyun death triggering me. I need to get away from social media for a while. And everything makes me go mad. Ignorant comments, tired of the victim blaming. Society needs to learn and understand abt mental health. I agree with you. May his beautiful soul rest in peace. He did very well.

You too, I hope you are well and happy :)

thank you for the White-Love single anw.

[bafabifi]

I hope you have something that you like or love to cope with your depression/anxiety no matter how small it may seem. When I was having a hard time, someone told me that if you have something that you like to make you cheer up even a bit that continue doing it - whether its listening to your favourite songs, watching shows, reading something whatever :) and know that you are never alone.

Wish you stay happy and healthy :)

Edit: I also stop looking at social media, not because I don't care but because seeing those news and updates can be very triggering and depressing.

[sakuraigurl]

Hi Jendaiyu & Bafabifi,

Jonghyun's death made me teared for a couple of days. I wasn't following their stuffs closely but I have seen the hardwork and effort he put into his work since the day Shinee debut. I was following every update released closely, and yes that was really triggering and depressing.

It is sad to see how much pain he suffered and help wasn't addressed to when he asked for.
Fans were tearing while sending him off, his family members too.

Similar to Bafabifi, i really hope Jendaiyu will find something you love and overcome it. When you've find that, please do lots of it. :)

We are all fan girls, and we hope our idols & fan friends will stay happy and healthy.
Let's all be happy and healthy (both mentally and physically).

Happy New Year!

[8_bit_magic]

Thank you very much for sharing the White Love audio, I really appeciate it.
Sorry, I can't comment on Jonghyun rn, it's still too raw for me and it just hurts like hell to talk about..... *)

[anna_reading]

thank you for sharing White Love ^^

The more you approach them and ask them to open up, the more they shrivel away -- I understand this feeling.