Comments | balletboy: Regret

balletboy

Regret

Feb 26, 2005 17:32

Ever look back on a decision you mae and you can't figure out why you made it? No possible reason can come to your mind. No matter what, you figure that you really made a mistake. And on top of that, the decision was made so long ago that you can't do anything to change it. It's beyond the realm of what you can still fix; what you can still make ( Read more... )

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shinigurai February 27 2005, 03:22:00 UTC

Impulse. I think I can honestly say that the only reason I ever made a decision that I later regretted was pure impulse. Now, that having been said, most of the decisions I make are on impluse so my words of wisdom aren't a whole lot of help here.

And yes, it is true that you reget the choices you didn't make, but shit, that's common sense man, because you have no idea how they would have turned out. You can't reget something bad that didn't happen... if that makes sense. Look, the next time you reget not having done something, just imagine the worst possible senario that could have happened if you had chosen differently and then you'll be fine.

Worst Possible balletboy February 28 2005, 02:27:47 UTC

I think the worst possible scenario was that the relationship would have ended, but it did anyway. I just made the wrong choice on when and why.

Re: Worst Possible shinigurai February 28 2005, 02:43:23 UTC

No man, it could have ended in such a manor that there would be zero possibility of the two of you ever getting back together.

Re: Worst Possible balletboy February 28 2005, 03:04:18 UTC

True. So now, in theory, there is still a possibilty of reconnecting (although highly unlikely). Dammit Perkins. I hate when you have a good point :)

Hi it's me ban15 February 27 2005, 08:42:48 UTC

Ma Tsu,

So I hear you're having a bad week. I'm sorry, I assume that blows. But I'm glad that everything was sorted out. There was only one part of that ramble up there that I didn't understand: "It's the thing that I don't understand, I can't understand, that I wish I'd done."

Maybe just because I don't know what that thing was? Oh well. I wished we talked more. Not about that really, but just in general.

I'm sure you're good, and things will be good. But if you ever feel the need, you know how to reach me.

curly sue

Re: Hi it's me balletboy February 28 2005, 02:26:41 UTC

I can't understand why I ended the best relationship I've had. There was no rhyme or reason for it. The only thing I can figure out is that I was too happy, and afraid to take that next step. Too bad I couldn't have learned that before.

Re: Hi it's me balletboy February 28 2005, 03:05:41 UTC

And by the way, I'm sorry.

soccerstar2150 February 27 2005, 19:02:51 UTC

The only part of the situation I don't like is that I wish she had chosen you. Would've made this whole thing a lot easier for me.

Oh well, can't change the past :)

I'm Glad, Too balletboy February 28 2005, 02:24:54 UTC

Given the way she talked to the both of us individually, I'm glad she choose you. She said she wanted to find happiness, and it's with you. If it wasn't, she would have made a differrent choice. So like you said, this whole thing is easier because she decided on you.

shinigurai March 1 2005, 04:27:10 UTC

No offense man, but why don't you break up with her?

soccerstar2150 March 1 2005, 06:38:47 UTC

Because then she'd be hurt, and need someone to talk to... it'd leave her open to some perverted little ass-fuck like you. :)

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Cheese Cake ban15 March 2 2005, 23:20:05 UTC

Yes, I believe my last words shall be "cheese cake"

Re: Cheese Cake balletboy March 2 2005, 23:39:10 UTC

Llama llama?