Comments | bambam52: Como estan, bitches?

bambam52

Como estan, bitches?

Sep 05, 2005 02:52

so what do you do when you realize that you being yourself is what puts you in the position that gets you taken advantage of? when you are the dependable one to always be there. the one that is always willing to help. the one that always comes out to hang out. i make myself way to convient at times and it gets taken advantage of. do i change ( Read more... )

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mar_y September 5 2005, 12:38:44 UTC

Hi

I hear you completely, Bambam… I felt the same way with “some” people in my life. Although, it’s sad people don’t respect you and care for you… for WHO YOU ARE… Never EVER change!! I think it’s best to let the person/people know how you feel. That you refuse to be a crutch for them. I feel that sometimes, they might not realize what they are doing?? Or if they do… it’s time to let them know it bothers you and you just wont tolerate it anymore. If worse does come to worse…. Finding friends who appreciate you for YOU is the better path to take. I have had to do that myself…and you know what?! I am so happy. I’ve never been so happy. Its silly, but once you find friends who appreciate and love you for YOU. You do change a bit… but in a positive way… you become more relaxed, comfortable and MORE open to be yourself… a self you didn’t really knew existed!! It’s an exciting discovery in life.. Trust me ( ... )

bambam52 September 5 2005, 15:23:12 UTC

it's not that people need me. i just keep allowing myself to be in these situations. i feel that it's my fault because i allow it. it's just the way i am. i think some people take advantage of that because they know i'll be there. i'm sick of it. i'm ready for a change but i don't know where to start.

sebatical September 5 2005, 13:17:29 UTC

This is precisely why I now do anything for a few people, and nothing for anyone else.

bambam52 September 5 2005, 15:19:53 UTC

i'm thinking thats the way i need to be.

celtickiss September 7 2005, 19:12:23 UTC

AMEN!

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bambam52 September 5 2005, 15:19:29 UTC

you obviously have no clue what i'm talking about. you couldn't be any further from the point.

mandy6488 September 5 2005, 17:22:43 UTC

Don't change yourself. If there are people that make you feel like you've been taken advantage of, distance yourself from that person/those people. Easier said then done, I guess, but it's better then consistently being disappointed...

xxxsummer September 6 2005, 13:18:57 UTC

well, i say on days you don't feel like being stomped on, just say fuck you. and on days where you can take it, take it!

you are a good person. don't ever change!