Comments | banannasplitt: Change of Pace

banannasplitt

Change of Pace

Feb 28, 2005 21:40

I've decided that, instead of writing about what I'm doing, I'll write about what I'm feeling. It just seems so much more real. And I want you guys to know me, not think you might have an idea as to what I'm like, so being real right now is what I'm looking for.

Life right now is pretty good. There's hardly any ( Read more... )

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gaian_templar March 1 2005, 04:04:39 UTC

I would love to see you in a midriff ^_ ( ... )

anonymous March 1 2005, 20:21:39 UTC

gahh I had written a long comment and it was deleted...okay..my comment isn't going to be nearly as profound as Jennifer's. (that was Jennifer who commented, right?)
Anyway...I wasn't even looking for love when Julian and I became interested in each other. In fact, at that time, I had a crush on Kunal! I completely believe it was fate that got our attentions though it was our CHOICE to do something about it. It was the right time for us to meet.
Perhaps right now just isn't your time, but that doesn't mean that your time won't come.
The kind of love you're looking for is SO hard to find in high school. The boys are almost all immature, annoying dipwads. They'll grow up and realize how beautiful, smart, funny, fun, and amazing you are. I know they will. It's all about time and timing. Do not EVER give up on love though. It will come around when it should.
And trust me...there are sooooo many girls (and guys) who feel the same way you do. You just have to meet the right person at the right time.
xoxo
~Kate~

anonymous March 1 2005, 20:29:04 UTC

ALSO!! I know exactly how you feel. For years I wondered why guys didn't like me. Was I not pretty? Was I fat? Was I stupid? Was I annoying? People would say no, but..I didn't care what they said. I just wanted a guy to like me, but...it wasn't the right time and I hadn't met the right guy. I've dated guys that didn't mean much to me, and it was just boring and stupid. I felt stifled and boxed in. The right guy IS worth the wait. Just because guys don't seem to like you doesn't mean you aren't attractive or you are loud, boring, annoying, etc. You aren't. You wouldn't have friends if you were. I realize that I scared off a lot of guys because I had confidence. I wasn't afraid to take on a challenge and I would (in a split second) confront a guy about something. Well, guys are stupid for the most part. One of my guy friends (joking around...but almost serious) said: Yeah..she was gorgeous until she opened her mouth. He doesn't like girls that talk. Granted..he's joking around, but..it really indicates something when he says it. Guys ( ... )

anonymous March 1 2005, 20:35:32 UTC

Okay just one more...well, maybe not just one more.

But no matter what happens, feel good about yourself. You are an amazing person. You're so intriguing and interesting. You're mature and talented. You're so many things that adjectives can't begin to describe. When you walk, walk with confidence. You have a lot going for you. Don't lower your standards for a guy just because you want one. There are guys that are good enough for you. Just wait for the right one. In the mean time, love yourself enough for him and you.

Never forget that your friends love you too. :)

xoxo
~Kate~ (3 is the magic number!)

anonymous March 1 2005, 23:16:24 UTC

After Kate's doctoral dissertation essay, my comment is gonna look pretty weak. But I'll put it here anyway ( ... )