Stamped as Belle // Matchmaker Theme
♥ >> Name: Jen.
♥ >> Age: 25.
♥ >> Previously stamped as:
Belle for regular.
Babette for mirror (human and object).
"Belle (Reprise)" for song.
Belle's Bow for item.
The Dining Room for location.
The Green Dress for dress.
"Beauty and the Beast" for scene.
♥ >> Do you prefer a male match, a female match, or both?: Male, please!
♥ >> Describe your personality in a nutshell: I'm generally an INFJ personality (that link takes a little while to load, but it describes me VERY well). I have a little force in me too. I am a very ambitious and determined person. I have specific goals and am convinced that hard work and perseverance can get you anywhere you need to go. I am straightforward, honest, and funny. I make inappropriate jokes and have a very odd sense of humor. I don't get offended easily. I am closed off with my personal life to people who don't know me very well because I can be wary of others, and I think letting too many people get very close can give them weapons to use against you later. Plus, I'm too lazy to keep up with tons of very close friends, and too proud to tell random people when I'm upset or angry. I'm intelligent, a perfectionist, and I stress easily. I expect a LOT out of myself and others. I am impatient and can find it difficult to focus, but when I get onto something, I put my entire being into it!
♥ >> What are some positive, attracting traits about you?: I am determined, funny, intelligent, witty, passionate, ambitious/driven, independent, grounded, realistic, affectionate, loving, loyal, tenacious, detail-oriented, responsible/dependable, health-conscious, and strong.
♥ >> And some negative not-so-attracting traits?: I am stubborn, impatient, a little selfish, a perfectionist, have high expectations of myself and everyone around me, stress-prone, competitive, and I tend to look toward the future instead of focusing on the present.
♥ >> What are some traits that are ideal for your perfect partner?: Well, let's be honest, I have to be physically attracted to them. It's not the most important thing, but it's definitely up there. Not that he has to be HOT in the traditional sense - I don't have a very normal taste in guys, lol (I like Cillian Murphy, whom many girls fine creepy...and also old guys, like Norm MacDonald, hah!). I tend to be drawn to tall, thin guys with lots of dark hair and a great smile. And I have a weird thing for glasses, for some reason. Secondly, intelligence. He has to be at least ridiculously street smart. He doesn't have to be more intelligent than me, but at least AS intelligent, even if it's not in the bookish way. Third, sense of humor and silliness. I have a dry, warped sense of humor, and he has to be very laid-back like that, as well as be able to provide his own silliness. Fourth, compassion of course. He has to be friendly, loyal, honest, and hard-working. Aaaand I'd like him to be affectionate and loving, kinda romantic, but not mushy or a pushover. For him to show that he is proud to have me by his side. And he will have to like kids and animals, and make a good dad. And we have to have interests in common, or at least be able to compromise and try each other's interests. He has to be adventurous that way...oh and want to travel. He also must be dependable and responsible. OK, THAT'S A LOT OF STUFF. It's a good thing my fiancé meets all these demands, haha.
♥ >> What are some traits that are an instant rejection in your partner?: Number one is arrogance. I hate it SO MUCH. Guys who look past or over you when they talk to you. So gross. Another one is guys who come from a lot of money and don't feel like they have to work for anything...that is a huge turn-off for me. What else...pushover guys...ones who fawn over their significant other and cater to their every whim and let themselves be dragged around. No thanks...I have my emotional-roller-coaster moments, and while my fiancé is a great listener and sympathetic (two other things I need to have!), there are times when I need him to give me a (proverbial) slap in the face when I'm being unreasonable. Also guys who smoke, or who are overweight. I can't help it - aside from just not being physically attractive to me, smoking is ridiculously unhealthy and I grew up around two parents who smoked. Do not want. As for being overweight, that has to do with physical attractiveness too, but I can't help it - it gives me the mental implication that they don't care that much about their health/eating right/exercising, and that is hugely important to me. Also, guys who are rude, especially to other women, to their moms, etc. Violent guys...no way...and, on a related note, self-consciousness...like when a guy is insanely jealous and intimidated, and/or confrontational. Blech. I think those are the biggies.
♥ >> Describe what your perfect date would be like: A day at Walt Disney World, ending with a romantic dinner at one of their many upscale restaurants. For something more low key, a day at the beach with a nice romantic dinner, or a concert/show with dinner. I love food. Feed me delicious food and I'm happy, hah. But I mean, something nice. I like roses, but I'm not huge on needing expensive jewelry or anything like that. I am girly, fun, and I like surprises and little things - not necessarily expensive things, but the date has to be original, fun, classy, and I want to see that the guy has tried to make it special. :o)
♥ >> What traits/hobbies would you want to share with your partner?: For traits: honesty, ambition/drive, sense of humor, health-conscious, compassion, responsibility, and the willingness to try new things are the biggies. As far as hobbies, those are pretty open. As long as we are both open to trying the others' interests, there is not anything specific he needs to be interested in.
♥ >> Do you tend to fall for the tall, dark, mysterious and handsome, or the light-hearted, cheerful and sometimes silly? Or maybe a little in between?: A little in between, but I am a sucker for tall, dark, and mysterious for sure.
♥ >> Do you believe opposites attract or those with many things in common?: I think it's a little bit of both. To an extent, you have to have enough differences to balance each other out or there isn't going to be any chemistry...two of the same pieces of a personality puzzle are usless, you know? But I think that you have to be similar enough in the sense that you are at least willing to try new things together, try each others' interests, etc.
♥ >> Do you believe in having someone doing things for you or do you like to do things yourself?: It depends...I don't like to take advantage of my fiancé and I am a very independent person, but it is nice to get massages or come home to a clean house. So, a mix.
♥ >> Name one character you think would be an awful match for you and explain why: Only one? OK, I guess Lefou. He is just too much of a pushover/mooch/whinybaby for me.
♥ >> Anything else you'd like us to know? I don't think so! Thanks for voting!
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