The Ultimate Diss (For the lack of a better phrase)

[barbaragail]

For all the enjoyment I have gotten out of Facebook...today all of that fun was tempered with, what I assume, is the ultimate social networking snub. I just this evening discovered that I was "unfriended" by 2 people. Now this has happened before and I dealt with it but this time, well it's actually quite painful. Who so unceremoniously

Comments

[vertigo66]

Yeah, I hate how Facebook doesn't let you know you've been unfriended. Someone did that to me and I have to say, I was a bit hurt even though we weren't really close and in retrospect it's for the best.

If I were in your position I would pretend I didn't notice and try not to take it personally. But I HATE confrontation!

Hugs.

[evl_bbw88]

:(((

I'm sorry, B! That does suck. It especially hurts worse when you didn't even do anything wrong. *hugs you*

Maybe for now you should just let it be? Continue as if nothing happened? Maybe one of them will come to you and say why they de-friended you. If not, and if you're comfortable doing so, approach them and ask if there's something wrong.

hugs you some more*

[sweetiejelly]

*hugs* It does hurt. I'm not sure how to make it better but *sends you tons of hugs* We love you, B. If I can friend you twice, I would. Hee. ♥

[frances_veritas]

If you really want to clear the air and really care for her, and you know it's going to keep bothering you, I'd approach her first. And see if she'll talk about it with you.

I'm so sorry about it all though. :(:( <3<3<3<3

[ladysonsie]

Oh! I'm so sorry Barbara. That must've really stung. *hugs you*

I'm not of the FB world so I'm not entirely sure what to do here. I guess it depends on how much it's going to bother you. If you think you won't be able to get past it I'd perhaps say something because the last thing you want is for it to eat at you. But maybe take a few days and see how you feel then?

*hugshugshugs*

ps. Need to send you a PM about something so off to do that now! ♥