Back to normal.

[barbles]

SINGLE IT IS!

Comments

[ephah]

:( Please don't tell me it was over the sex stuff. He sounded so wonderful :-/ ((HUGS))

[barbles]

No, it was over the fact that he still had a dating profile on OkCupid and was logged in aLL THE FLIPPING TIME msging girls (which he doesn't know I know he was doing). Then I reactivated mine and went and looked at his, told him it bothered me and he said that since I reactivated my profile, he didnt want to date a woman who would do something hurtful like having a dating profile.

[cakemaven]

so basically, he want to shift the guilt to you for HIS bad behavior. sounds to me like you're better off without him.

[barbles]

I am. completely even if it hurts.

[cakemaven]

I'm sorry it didn't work out. I was so hopeful he could be the one :(

[barbles]

See above.

[alleigh]

To be completely honest I thought he came off as fucking creepy to begin with.

[uppity_woman]

this:( he seemed a little too controlling to me. HUGS. i'm glad you found out sooner than later.

[barbles]

Me too. Seriously, in retrospect, he was pretty controlling and demanding to be inserted into my life really quickly.

[uppity_woman]

yeah. the whole 'give up everything you do and become completely dependent on me' was a red flag. It's hard to know when to say something about situations like that on LJ because obviously, no one gets the whole story about every situation. But I'm so glad you are smart and caught him and dumped his ass.

[hckydntst]

After reading the okcupid freak out comment, wow that's some good crazy right there. I was hoping he was just getting carried away with some initial infatuation stuff but damn, you dodged a bullet.

[yummy4mummy]

:( *hugs*
Why do men have to do this. Where are the normal bloody men!!! The one's who act like human beings?