Comments | barrelbrah: It begins and ends with a choice

barrelbrah

It begins and ends with a choice

May 04, 2005 21:55

People do stupid things, which most people learn to live with by practicing apathy. Which is one of the stupidest parts of our society. It sucks even more when the stupid decisions are made by people we care about. And thats when we know we really and truly care, because we are presented with a choice.... Do we forgive them like we want to and ( Read more... )

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One other thing.... barrelbrah May 5 2005, 02:20:17 UTC

"Knowing the path and walking the path are two completely different things"

living4him May 5 2005, 03:17:53 UTC

sometimes you have to realize that life is more important than letting little things get in the way of living it.

barrelbrah May 5 2005, 03:39:22 UTC

i know but what if the stupid choice is shortening your life span?

P.S. sorry i couldn't come over the other night, hope you are ok.

living4him May 5 2005, 04:01:31 UTC

i guess i see what you're saying but if you really can't do anything about it you can't waste your time being angry you know?

i'm doing okay, its still all sinking in.

"The most i can do for my friend is simply to be his friend." - Henry David Thoreau _arche May 5 2005, 23:35:45 UTC

Sorry for just finding your journal randomly, I know we're not close friends or anything like that, but I thought I might add my two cents (and yes, I do believe I understand your situation ( ... )

_arche May 5 2005, 23:37:29 UTC

ahem, and sorry for the mis-typing.
"A man that hath friends must show himself friendly:
and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother."

barrelbrah May 6 2005, 02:35:18 UTC

OK lets make sure you're getting the right story here frist. I wasn't the one who suggested the end of the relationship... Those words were kind of stuffed into my mouth and I was so upset at the time that I just agreed. And to me the frase "Reconsider our friendship" doesn't mean that I don't want to be friends, it just means that certain rules are going to have to change.
And I don't mind that you posted I'm actually glad you stopped in to give a word.

_arche May 6 2005, 10:37:44 UTC

Alright. That's understandable. I was going off of what I had been told, and stories change. I do however restate that you should still stick with your friend in this whole-heartedly. It's very upsetting to see friends such as you two in such a state, and with others getting into this as well (not that I'm a big help), even though perhaps Danny has a point (I'm assuming you're agreeing with him), neither of you should do such a thing.
Yes, make it clear you believe what she is doing is wrong, but don't go about making threats and reconsiderations just yet. Wait for the huge stuff, right?
Also, listen to what she has to say as well. I'm sure you do, but we are humans and we sometimes forget that part.

Have a wonderful day, and best wishes!
-Ashley