Unable to express how angry I am.

[basslyoon]

Ok. So. I generally think I am a laid back person. I'm sure there are several high maintenance people who believe this of themselves as well, but hopefully I have a bit more self-awareness than that...but I digress. As I said, I generally avoid confrontation like the plague, I never step on people's toes, and I try to make sure everyone is as

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[kelliann1388]

You are not being a child. I am angry for you. The whole thing is completely ridiculous and intrusive. Rehearsal dinners are supposed to be exclusive to the people closest to the bride and groom, namely immediate family and the wedding party.

I hope this all works out for you and that you and Ryan stand united to get this sorted out. You are both adults and his parents should respect both of you as such. Preferably by respecting what the two of you want for your wedding, which you only get to do once.

Wishing you the very best,
Kelli

[leia131]

1. I have been watching Bridezillas like it's my job lately (in order to see what NOT to do when I am eventually a bride) and trust me, you are far, FAR from that level of crazy/ridiculous. (When you start demanding that your bridesmaids lose weight or they're out of the wedding, or smash your cake topper and then run it over with your car because it's the wrong color, then we'll talk).

2. You are not being unreasonable AT ALL. It's your rehearsal dinner, and it should be the way you and Ryan want it. Surely they could have the reunion before or after or ANY OTHER TIME. Ugh. I don't really have a solution, I just wanted you to know that your anger is completely justified.

3. Unrelated, but as I have you for an audience: Party on the Hill is on my birthday! July 14th. Please arrange your schedule accordingly (assuming that you want to come/don't have exciting wedding-related things planned). I promise you won't have to eat baked beans of you don't want to.

[krazykarot]

You don't sound like a child at all! You have every right to be angry with them. What you're planning sounds lovely and awesome.

Also, congrats! haha I know we haven't kept in touch but it's good to hear you're happy (minus the in-laws).

[haveaday510]

Whaaat. You are not a child at all. I would be absolutely LIVID if that happened, because it's your weekend and your wedding and they have no right to twist it into something else. Not. Cool. It is completely inconsiderate and unfair.

Now I'm angry for you too.