therealljidol Season 10-Week 13: Abandon Hope, All Ye Who Enter

[baxaphobia]

It has been over a year since my mother passed away. I expected that her husband would have passed away before she did but that did not happen

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[tx_cronopio]

I saw that with both of my parents. When someone is ready, it's pretty clear. Wishing him an easy passing.

[baxaphobia]

It's difficult as I am not close to him but do what I can to make sure things are as good as they can be.

[mac_arthur_park]

*hugs* I see this every day at work, but nothing makes it easier. Thank you for not being the type who holds on when that is clearly unwanted in Chappy's case. May it be swift and painless.

[baxaphobia]

It is very sad. Holding on would do no good as clearly there isn't any quality of life and no hope of improvement. Sigh. Thanks so much for your thoughts and comment!

[mamas_minion]

I am sorry this is happening, I used to work in a retirement home and would see this happen from time to time. Wishing you happiness and peace in this difficult time.

[baxaphobia]

Thanks so much. It's not an easy thing to watch. I do have some sense of separation as Chappy is not my biological father and we were never close. But it's still sad to watch. Thanks for your comment!

[tonithegreat]

Aw. I like that you put this out there. Such a tough but relatable situation. I think a lot of us know someone who reached this point. It isn't happy, but it is worthwhile to discuss.

[baxaphobia]

Thanks. I am not close to my mother's husband but I do have a sense of obligation to watch over what is happening with him. His daughter really is not doing a whole lot. Sigh. Thanks for your comment!

[shadowwolf13]

:sad face: I'm sorry ya'll are going through this.

[baxaphobia]

Sigh. It is what it is. Hugs and thanks for reading!