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[bchgrl315]

So right now I am so frusterated! I meet a guy and I get to know him and I like him and he likes me and everything is great for a couple weeks and then I have to tell him about me. I f-ing hate this, some guys will not be with me over something that I have no control over. And it is going to be like this for the rest of my life. I will always find

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[mae_mdwst]

FOr better or worse I think you're doing the right thing. It takes nerve to be honest about yourself and your past. I've only dealt with this same type of situation a few times since I've gone FT, and trust me, the women I've told have dropped me pretty fucking fast too. I've also lived with some medical conditions seperate from transtition that I've had to tell people I'm dating about, and at times, I've been dropped because of that as well.

On the positive side, I have aclean conscience and I'm not compromising who, and what I am in order to fit into anyone elses little formula of what (or who) I should be and the peopole that have accepted me have been incredible and wonderful, even if the relationships didn't stay "romantic". I know it sounds trite to say "be patient" but it's really all you can do and still maintain your integrity. Sorry if thats cold comfort