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[beachboyty]

So, Scott and I did not partake in the L.A. Pride festivities this past weekend. This, even though we had several invites to go up and have an absolutely debaucherous and sleep-deprived marathon experience at any number of parties

Comments

[thayleia]

I really don't think you did anything wrong. Yeah, your delivery was a bitch slap to the head. But sometimes you gotta do that to get the point across. What surprises me most is that you guys have been together for 4 years and you are just now coming to blows on that topic. Hell, Ken and I are just now contemplating moving in together, and we have already had round one of that discussion. lol

[alex_jon]

If I lost this final 55lbs, I'd be pretty hurt if people called me out on anything in regards to weight loss. For some people, it's a big part of their life.

But hey, if it's mutual money, then you did the right thing, regardless.

Just let him know about all the stress and frustrations and the fact that it's been brewing, and hopefully you admit that sometimes you need to say things instead of letting them simmer.

[paboyeee]

Wow, I think this is the interesting parts of your life that you were referring to in a past entry you wrote about not including in your lj, and everybody thinks you just live a life of sex and politics. I have learned a lot about you and your partner Scott in that long entry. I think you both can be stubborn from what I read. I think that it was probably Scott's way of luring you in with the e-mail so you guys could break the silence, but I think he had some alterior motives while doing so. You had every right to call him out on the finances and him being very selfish in thinking about himself and not US meaning you and him. I think the comments about his body and how much he thinks he is unattractive and the problems he is dealing with there may have been a little harsh. I think it will take some time to make up, but you guys have been together for four years and you will make it through many more arguments. Good luck! I think he will probably join you in San Fran after all too, will look forward to hearing the updated story

[sinfinity55]

Maybe he wants to keep you all to himself for a while longer.
we all know whats going to happen at pride

wouldn't a SF trip with just scott and a nice hotel be equally as satisfying than a weekend long party

But that ofcourse, is just me- just looking up at the beautiful buildings in sf is all I need.

I wish I could say something more insightful but I don't have this experience and I wouldn't be so pretentious as to pretend I have the remedy to your scenario, but you, Scott and I all know that you can handle it and that y'all(did I just say yall?) will get over it like the mature adults you are.

[sinfinity55]

oh, that, or you can battle to the death- and the pecuniary benefits from ticket sells would much help with the trip!

[tylernathaniel]

Unfortunately, sometimes in life, shock value is a necessary tool

[tylernathaniel]

... two more comments.

After rereading your post, I'd like to say I can totally associate with the comment about rooms of the house and how high school students totally stick to their bedrooms.

I rarely leave mine. haha

Also... this may seem a bit negative coming from me, but it feels almost like Scott baited you into lunch. It feels like what Megan did to me at Baskin Robbins.

Perhaps he did the same thing for the same reason Megan did - she knew if she got me in a public place I wouldn't have been half as powerful in my words as I could have been, especially because she knows I won't get loud in a public place unless I absolutely must, and even then I try to leave.

I don't know if it's just me, but I'd definitely take a look at that. To be all "I love you, please take me out to lunch!! ::smile smile:: and then pull that, especially after deliberately saying how he wanted to go... it sounds... odd.

Anyway.

I hope I don't cause trouble with this.

Talk to you soon. =D