This about sums up the week I've had.........

[bear_spirit]

Ok first things first only lost 1lb this week but on the good side did'nt gain anything and plus bike goes in for repair tomorrow so I can't wait to start on that next week, other than that, crap week, how come when you try and help someone they expect you to hold there hand all the way to where they need to go? I know it sounds selfish an all but

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[mooncatwitch]

it is very hard honey but often people want you to take them all the way there and not do it for them but have as much invested in it as them so that if it goes wrong they have someone to blame but themselves. There is only so much you can do for folks and judging when its time to let go of the hand and let them walk forward is such a skill it doesnt mean you care any less, it doesnt mean you wont celebrate with them when they get to their destination but many folks see it as abandonment or take it very personally and that (to me anyway from experience)just shows how little they really know you

well done with the pound honey its still progress and as for the bike - brilliant

take care honey and you know where we are anytime if you need to talk or wrestle Crow to the floor and make him scream !

with tones of love

Aunty Moon
xxx

[bear_spirit]

Thanks Aunty and I know what you mean regarding them walking forward for the last bit, having spoken to my mate tonight he understands why I'm doing it and what he needs to do for himself.

Hope everything ok your end and I'll speak to you soon.

Big Bear Hugs

Bear
xxx