Straight man issues.

[bearassed]

Ok this is odd. Is it me or is it kind of odd that a straight man is asking me out to hang out for drinks several times now? I always thought it was the other way around? Hey I do not hide what I am so he has to know

Comments

[bluestocking]

Maybe he's not so straight?

[bearassed]

I don't know but it is still that area of I don't play at work/school thing. He is a nice guy and all that and talks about the 3 girls he is talking to and having come over so I just don't know.

[kent_va]

Maybe he's 'curious'. Since you're out, you might be the only gay guy he knows. He might be looking for support or info. Who knows? Or he might just like you as a friend and wants to hang out!

[bearassed]

True just cautious I guess.

[bearassed]

True Kent, but I have become very cautious from my past and have been burnt so I am taking this slowly. He called again yesterday and asked to hang out on next Wed.

[bearassed]

Hell no, too old for that. I'll get him a gay for dummies book instead.. Ugh..

[merricke]

Have you been secretly wearing trucker's hat with a fish hook on the brim? or perhaps an Izod collar shirt and dockers. Maybe his strait-dar is broken, and he thinks you ping "preppy professional who likes vapid, shallow conversation in a trendy bar for yuppy spawn... over crap americal beer... while oogling pale, paris hilton clones who are looking for said yuppy slime, to trade what they think is naughty sex, for getting their bills paid."

but I digress.

[bearassed]

LMAO nice...

[ginamary]

Maybe he's a 'closet Jehovah Witness' or 'Mormon' and wants to 'talk'.

Seriously, though, maybe it's just the same reason that straight guys hang out in bars together.

[bearassed]

Odd ok, but we shall see.