I hope it gets better soon. I wish we lived in the same area, cause I'd like to try helping you , or comforting you, cause its hard having to do everything, it really stresses you out. Robert should just watch liam for a few hours everyday while he's not working, while you feel like this so you can take a solid nap. Newborns are difficult
Yea you really need a break, new babys really put a strain on you physically and mentally. Body hurts, vags stretched, hormones changed, tired from waking up with baby, and then baby cries all the time. You have more pressure on you, you had to carry Liam nine months, you have the worst strain. Your just not a superhuman and need a break sometimes. he doesn't have that strain like you do. I hope he understands that, cause if he does, at least you can probably talk to him bout helping out, and how you are feeling, and why you need help. Otherwise you are bound to snap, "you never help, i am always doing the houswork, taking care of liam, etc. Frustration leads to nasty fights, but at least Robert's a good guy, and you should be able to deal with your frustration. Oh and guys take a while to learn how to be an awesome good daddy, my mom always explains to me the mistakes my dad made with babies. They don't understand babies like us usally.
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Probably also making my healing process take longer since I am nesting and cleaning. ...he should be doing all that while I rest. >.
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I just told my boyfriend that he better help out or I'll kill him D:
Hopefully you get through this without going crazy. I'm sure everything will get better eventually
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