Am i living in a dream world? Are there relationships with that kind of pure love? Am i the only one who thinks cheating is a first sign that your relationship is falling apart and will never be the same again? That your partner isn't the one? It's all very subjective, I think. Yes, infidelity destroys relationships, but there are also relationships that survive it. Even the latter type isn't perfect!
So my question is, can you cheat on someone you love with all your heart?I think so. Cheating is not always something done out of lack of love for the other person. For some people it's a method of coping, a method of lashing out, or many other things. Mistakes are mistakes. But the clincher is that no, no love is perfect. Love waxes and wanes. If you can grow to love someone more every day that passes, who's to say there won't be days that you love them a little less? Saying that there's no way to go but up is, idk
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For some people it's a method of coping, a method of lashing out, or many other things. Mistakes are mistakes.
I understand, but you can and should cope in other ways. Sleeping with someone else is not the answer. If you have urges there's always another way to lash out. ;)
If you can grow to love someone more every day that passes, who's to say there won't be days that you love them a little less? Saying that there's no way to go but up is, idk.I have to disagree with this. I was in love, for a very long time, and there was never a day when i loved my bf less. Feelings aren't something you can switch on and off. *shrug* You can be upset, you can fight, scream at each other but you will still love him/her as much as you did the day before
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2. I totally agree with you here. I think, that when you really, really love someone, the thought of cheating does not come to your mind. But if this thoughts come, I won't say that you then don't love your partner anymore, but the love is not strong enough. Of course there are people who can live with the fact, that their partner has cheated on them - I could not. I would not want to. I know a couple, they were together for idk 6-8 years, and he was cheating on her behind her back. She found out about it and they parted - but after some time they found again to each other. Now they are married and have a child. Well, I couldn't trust him/her anymore. I don't jugde them, but for me, real love is about trust and honesty - and not cheating.. That not 'true' love then..
3. I was in love with Marina. That's all. ;)
edit: I almost forgot! The Denna/Cara/Dahlia-manip (cheerleaders) is awesome! It brought me here :) I know I'm late - I always am..
1. You should start, it's a great show. ;) 2. Yep, exactly. And you watched the L word so you know how much Bette wanted that girl. You can tell me you'll never do it again, but there's no way i could trust you again. *shrug* 3. Ugh, i don't like Marina lol. She's very attractive, but she isn't doing anything for me. I am very picky when it comes to girls lol.
1. I might ;) 2. Exactly! I see it the same way! 3. *lol* I was badly sad after she left! ;) I was a fan of her and Jenny before Jenny went all crazy! They would have been good together! But Shane is the same to me. Very beautiful but not my type ;)
I think it's great! I stumbling through the old posts in lots_femslash at the moment, because I missed the "high-time" (I watched LotS only after it was cancelled)
Poor bb *hugs* I'm not a fan because of all the cheating going on. I really feel sorry for Tim :( He loves her so much. All of them are crazy, but even now in the first season i see that Jenny is the craziest one. I think she has multiple personality disorder. *iz scared* I just want Shane naked, on top of me, talking dirty in that deep voice of hers. *faints*
I am the same when it comes to the L word. I'm always behind lol. Fangirling over something when other people moved on. *pout* But i'm not over LotS, so if you need to rant or talk about it i'm here. ;)
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It's all very subjective, I think. Yes, infidelity destroys relationships, but there are also relationships that survive it. Even the latter type isn't perfect!
So my question is, can you cheat on someone you love with all your heart?I think so. Cheating is not always something done out of lack of love for the other person. For some people it's a method of coping, a method of lashing out, or many other things. Mistakes are mistakes. But the clincher is that no, no love is perfect. Love waxes and wanes. If you can grow to love someone more every day that passes, who's to say there won't be days that you love them a little less? Saying that there's no way to go but up is, idk ( ... )
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I understand, but you can and should cope in other ways. Sleeping with someone else is not the answer. If you have urges there's always another way to lash out. ;)
If you can grow to love someone more every day that passes, who's to say there won't be days that you love them a little less? Saying that there's no way to go but up is, idk.I have to disagree with this. I was in love, for a very long time, and there was never a day when i loved my bf less. Feelings aren't something you can switch on and off. *shrug* You can be upset, you can fight, scream at each other but you will still love him/her as much as you did the day before ( ... )
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2. I totally agree with you here. I think, that when you really, really love someone, the thought of cheating does not come to your mind. But if this thoughts come, I won't say that you then don't love your partner anymore, but the love is not strong enough. Of course there are people who can live with the fact, that their partner has cheated on them - I could not. I would not want to. I know a couple, they were together for idk 6-8 years, and he was cheating on her behind her back. She found out about it and they parted - but after some time they found again to each other. Now they are married and have a child. Well, I couldn't trust him/her anymore. I don't jugde them, but for me, real love is about trust and honesty - and not cheating.. That not 'true' love then..
3. I was in love with Marina. That's all. ;)
edit: I almost forgot! The Denna/Cara/Dahlia-manip (cheerleaders) is awesome! It brought me here :) I know I'm late - I always am..
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2. Yep, exactly. And you watched the L word so you know how much Bette wanted that girl. You can tell me you'll never do it again, but there's no way i could trust you again. *shrug*
3. Ugh, i don't like Marina lol. She's very attractive, but she isn't doing anything for me. I am very picky when it comes to girls lol.
Lol, yeah it's ok. I'm not good at manips.
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2. Exactly! I see it the same way!
3. *lol* I was badly sad after she left! ;) I was a fan of her and Jenny before Jenny went all crazy! They would have been good together! But Shane is the same to me. Very beautiful but not my type ;)
I think it's great! I stumbling through the old posts in lots_femslash at the moment, because I missed the "high-time" (I watched LotS only after it was cancelled)
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I'm not a fan because of all the cheating going on. I really feel sorry for Tim :( He loves her so much.
All of them are crazy, but even now in the first season i see that Jenny is the craziest one. I think she has multiple personality disorder. *iz scared*
I just want Shane naked, on top of me, talking dirty in that deep voice of hers. *faints*
I am the same when it comes to the L word. I'm always behind lol. Fangirling over something when other people moved on. *pout*
But i'm not over LotS, so if you need to rant or talk about it i'm here. ;)
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