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What would people say if I died?
Well first of all there's my daughter and there is the matter of raising her. Of course my husband would continue to raise her but since he works most of the time she would probably end up being raised by her aunts & grandparents most of the time which is definitely not what i want for her. But she's only one so she wouldn't understand death or anything and she would just wonder where i was for awhile until she grew up and really learned what had happened.
My husband ofcourse would be sad. I'm sure if we didn't have our daughter and I died he would go through a get-drunk-every-night-don't-care-about-anything phase. But since he'd have to worry about her he would do what he normally does when he's hurt, hold it all inside, and i'm sure he'd cry when he was alone. It would probably take him at least a year but he would move on and date again so he could find someone to fill the mother's role for my daughter & he's not the kind of person that can really be alone. But he would definitely have a lot of one night stand kind of things before he really was ready to settle down again.
My father would probably regret not speaking to me the past few years but he wouldn't admit it to anyone. My siblings & mother would be sad, of course, but it really depends on how i died causing how they acted.
I'm sure lots of my friends would be really sad too & just act like people do when they lose someone. And my friend Jill, since she's an attention whore, would act like I was the best thing that ever happened to her so she could get lots of people to feel sorry for her [this one kid in our high school committed suicide when we were sophomores & she had had a class w/ him & only talked to him once but she acted like they were best friends & she was all sad & stuff even though she really didn't even know him, so that people would comfort her and feel sorry for her...yeah it's really annoying about her but i still love her]
My cousins & grandparents would be sad as well...but there's not really anything interesting there....
So that's pretty much it.
Well first of all there's my daughter and there is the matter of raising her. Of course my husband would continue to raise her but since he works most of the time she would probably end up being raised by her aunts & grandparents most of the time which is definitely not what i want for her. But she's only one so she wouldn't understand death or anything and she would just wonder where i was for awhile until she grew up and really learned what had happened.
My husband ofcourse would be sad. I'm sure if we didn't have our daughter and I died he would go through a get-drunk-every-night-don't-care-about-anything phase. But since he'd have to worry about her he would do what he normally does when he's hurt, hold it all inside, and i'm sure he'd cry when he was alone. It would probably take him at least a year but he would move on and date again so he could find someone to fill the mother's role for my daughter & he's not the kind of person that can really be alone. But he would definitely have a lot of one night stand kind of things before he really was ready to settle down again.
My father would probably regret not speaking to me the past few years but he wouldn't admit it to anyone. My siblings & mother would be sad, of course, but it really depends on how i died causing how they acted.
I'm sure lots of my friends would be really sad too & just act like people do when they lose someone. And my friend Jill, since she's an attention whore, would act like I was the best thing that ever happened to her so she could get lots of people to feel sorry for her [this one kid in our high school committed suicide when we were sophomores & she had had a class w/ him & only talked to him once but she acted like they were best friends & she was all sad & stuff even though she really didn't even know him, so that people would comfort her and feel sorry for her...yeah it's really annoying about her but i still love her]
My cousins & grandparents would be sad as well...but there's not really anything interesting there....
So that's pretty much it.