Hey Becky,
I get why you are mad. Because its private and only the girls should decide whether it should get posted or not. But uhm, now it is posted all I can say is, it is not a big deal, I didn't saw anything shocking and would have moved on to some decklists or something and forgetting about all this if I didn't saw this story of you. Relax girl, nobody will think different of you now they see this. It looks hot, but who didn't knew that these girls were hot in the first place?
Dirkjan
A never had a decent conversation with you guy from IRC.
Some words from Russian MTG/BDSMer
anonymous
October 3 2001, 05:37:44 UTC
Well, you really did some funny art. Too bad for you - your poses & equip are not easily toleranted by society. But think of it as "test of purity" for your friends. True friends don't laught on you, because they like _you_ , not your interests, despite your (somehow strange?) activities. So don't cry.
And last. Masking your SM interests is not so right. Perhaps, "unmask" it is more easy... and much more satisfying.
With respect, Gotfried.
Moscow/Russia MTG-Gamer,
admin of biggest Russia bdsm-site.
gotfried@cityline.ru
Angels and A-Holes...
anonymous
October 3 2001, 07:29:02 UTC
Becky,
I only know you by name, but I felt compelled to post anyway...
First, let me say in response to your first question: If I didn't know who the people in the pictures were, I would think that they were two people who know how to enjoy themselves, and that they are much braver than I am, to allow someone to photograph them like this...
so, two things: fun-loving and brave. good character traits for anyone.
now, as far as the people who have a problem with this go: screw 'em. Life philosophy #1: be yourself; anyone who can't deal with the true you is not your friend and should not be important enough to you to matter.
Don't allow them to ruin that part of you that you think is beautiful. It is beautiful, and it's just as beautiful today as it was the day before the pictures were posted. There are just more people who know about it now.
-Scott Forster
-00010101
PS: thanks to PTR's inability to type, he calls you and Michelle "extreme angels," which is kinda cool... :)
Re: Angels and A-Holes...beckycaretOctober 3 2001, 08:07:34 UTC
hehehe... i might just sign a few posts as "beckycaret, extreme angel"
thank you all for responding to this post. It does mean a lot to me, and has put a lot of doubts to rest on how people will view me. Not that i am totally "have to be perfect in everyone's eyes" but how people view me is directly linked to how they TREAT me, and no one wants to be treated poorly.
Well I didnt want to pay but I will sign at the end. When I first saw the pics I was like "wow, I never would have imagined this about those two."
I'm not into bondage/submission myself, so it makes me feel kinda edgy, but if you are into it,
it's your business.
As for the picture issue, well, anytime pictures are taken, a chance exists that they will find themselves in the hands of less desireable people.
The pics are obviously in a boudoir style and not meant to be in the tawdry manner of some sites.
That being said, if you want to keep something private, then the best way to do it is not to have a record taken of it.
As for what I would honestly think, heh, well I guess I'd think you were ahem...really uninhibited and that perhaps you had some self-esteem issues.
That being said, I haven't lost any respect for Michelle's ability as a player or yours, and I wish you a lot of strength in the coming times.
Be strong and keep true to yourselves,
Re: The picsbeckycaretOctober 3 2001, 08:12:05 UTC
Yea, there are a lot of people who are mistaking these pictures as a record of our "hot lesbian affair".
There was no sex involved in these pictures. We wanted to make something pretty, and taking the pictures was actually very uncomfortable, just because of how we had to hold our bodies, and pose for long periods of time while testing lighting and things.
Michelle and i are very close friends. We are FRIENDS. We didn't have an affair and these pictures could confuse that fact, but we still didn't have an affair.
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I get why you are mad. Because its private and only the girls should decide whether it should get posted or not. But uhm, now it is posted all I can say is, it is not a big deal, I didn't saw anything shocking and would have moved on to some decklists or something and forgetting about all this if I didn't saw this story of you. Relax girl, nobody will think different of you now they see this. It looks hot, but who didn't knew that these girls were hot in the first place?
Dirkjan
A never had a decent conversation with you guy from IRC.
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And last. Masking your SM interests is not so right. Perhaps, "unmask" it is more easy... and much more satisfying.
With respect, Gotfried.
Moscow/Russia MTG-Gamer,
admin of biggest Russia bdsm-site.
gotfried@cityline.ru
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I only know you by name, but I felt compelled to post anyway...
First, let me say in response to your first question: If I didn't know who the people in the pictures were, I would think that they were two people who know how to enjoy themselves, and that they are much braver than I am, to allow someone to photograph them like this...
so, two things: fun-loving and brave. good character traits for anyone.
now, as far as the people who have a problem with this go: screw 'em. Life philosophy #1: be yourself; anyone who can't deal with the true you is not your friend and should not be important enough to you to matter.
Don't allow them to ruin that part of you that you think is beautiful. It is beautiful, and it's just as beautiful today as it was the day before the pictures were posted. There are just more people who know about it now.
-Scott Forster
-00010101
PS: thanks to PTR's inability to type, he calls you and Michelle "extreme angels," which is kinda cool... :)
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thank you all for responding to this post. It does mean a lot to me, and has put a lot of doubts to rest on how people will view me. Not that i am totally "have to be perfect in everyone's eyes" but how people view me is directly linked to how they TREAT me, and no one wants to be treated poorly.
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I'm not into bondage/submission myself, so it makes me feel kinda edgy, but if you are into it,
it's your business.
As for the picture issue, well, anytime pictures are taken, a chance exists that they will find themselves in the hands of less desireable people.
The pics are obviously in a boudoir style and not meant to be in the tawdry manner of some sites.
That being said, if you want to keep something private, then the best way to do it is not to have a record taken of it.
As for what I would honestly think, heh, well I guess I'd think you were ahem...really uninhibited and that perhaps you had some self-esteem issues.
That being said, I haven't lost any respect for Michelle's ability as a player or yours, and I wish you a lot of strength in the coming times.
Be strong and keep true to yourselves,
Cheers,
Crazy Pierre
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There was no sex involved in these pictures. We wanted to make something pretty, and taking the pictures was actually very uncomfortable, just because of how we had to hold our bodies, and pose for long periods of time while testing lighting and things.
Michelle and i are very close friends. We are FRIENDS. We didn't have an affair and these pictures could confuse that fact, but we still didn't have an affair.
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