going in circles

[beforetwilight]

 I can't believe I'm back in this same situation again. I've been having problems with Cody lately concerning the time we spend together. We both have insanely busy schedules and the time we get together is very rare. This week in particular has been rough and I'm beginning to question the validity of everything we've been through and what it

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[emilywinter]

I know what you mean about not wanting to say anything because it makes you feel desperate, because my friends have recently been cutting me out of a lot of things, and not really spending any time with me. I didn't want to confront them because I knew I'd sound needy and whiny, but I finally did, and honestly I feel a lot better for it.
Maybe you should tell him, but of course, in a calm, rational way. If you present your side clearly, giving him all these points, he has to consider your point of view about the situation. And he can never pull out the "you never told me you felt that way" argument if you get upset again.