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[behindthefool]

Shamelessly stolen off gledster2000Leave a comment below on this public post with anything that you're thinking about or anything that's on your mind. Remember to use the anonymous option so no-one will know who you are and have fun! Share that secret crush you've got, that prank that no-one knows you've played, anything at all - just comment below

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[anonymous]

i am an extreem hypocrite as i am currently doing what i would tell ANY of my friends "you are rushing into things" or "woah... thats crazy" i know this and yet im still doing it :(

[behindthefool]

Advice is easier to give than to take and more often than not it's not completely right.

Is the rushing into these things making you happy or making you panic? What are the worst possible outcomes - are they ones you can live with? Why are you still doing it if your instincts are telling you to stop?

Nothing's as black and white as we'd like it to be. Perhaps if nothing else, the next time your friends do something crazy you'll look at it differently and empathise more with their enthusiasm and haphazardness. Perhaps you'll decide that being foolish and doing crazy things is what gets the blood pumping through your veins. Or maybe you'll realise you were right all along and be able to back your advice up with personal experience. Why not enjoy finding out which it will be?

Life isn't about avoiding mistakes, it's about learning from them. So relax a bit, take a deep breath and give yourself a break.

[anonymous]

i think the only reason i feel apprehensive is cause i keep beating myself up about it... other than that im totally head over heels

[behindthefool]

Then enjoy it! Moments like these are rare and beautiful. Cherish them.

[anonymous]

I have an irrational fear that one day I am going to walk into a public toilet cubicle and discover someone hanging.

[anonymous]

whereas mine is just that someone won't have flushed.

[anonymous]

and why is it that we decide not to use that one toilet? If we were at home and found it unflushed, we would flush it ourselves and carry on as usual.

[anonymous]

True, but then it is fucking lazy to NOT flush after you go. If I found that sort of thing going on at home let's just say she would get a fucking good kicking.

[anonymous]

I dont know what to say.....
Im a very jealous person.

[behindthefool]

In what way - romantically or in general life?

I think I am too.

[anonymous]

im confused about my sexuality

[behindthefool]

If you're who told me this before then you know that I'm always very willing to listen or chat or anything you like. Also very happy to never ever mention it, I just wanted you to know that I do sometimes think of you and how you feel about this now and hope that you're happy.

[anonymous]

Your the only person in the whole world that ive ever told, and I thought you had forgot!
Im always open to chat about stuff if you ever wanted to ask me anything. x

[behindthefool]

Of course I haven't forgotten, I felt privileged (and still do) that you were able to tell me particularly as I'm the only one you've told. I don't mention it because as far as our relationship is concerned it's irrelevant but I'm still very willing to chat about it any time you want to. There's not much I can offer in the way of advice and guidance because this is something you have to figure out on your own and over time, but as a sounding board I'm your woman!

I have nothing to ask, I just hope that you find your happiness. There are very few people in the world I consider deserve it as much as I do you.

xxx

[anonymous]

I'm extremely worried about money at the moment.

[anonymous]

Don't be.