Comments | beingchris: One Year Anniversary

beingchris

One Year Anniversary

Dec 01, 2009 12:13

Well, yesterday was exactly a year since Jesse broke up with me, and today starts year 2 of being single. As much as I thought I would hate this a year ago, I'm actually loving single life now. I really can't believe I went through those years with Jesse, comprising most of my early and mid-20's, without all the freedom that I have now ( Read more... )

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deftera December 1 2009, 20:43:49 UTC

Thankfully in my relationship, I haven't given up any of my freedoms. The only freedom I didn't have was being able to sleep with whoever I wanted, whenever and that's no longer the case ;)

But other than that...we both are fine with each other doing whatever we want whenever we want, be it hanging out with friends or just going out by ourselves to fart around town and what not.

Don't get me wrong, I've been in a relationship with LOTS of restrictions and the relationship was rocky at best and I"m confused as to why I clung onto that relationship for as long and as hard as I did. Live and learn.

I'm just commenting to let you know that you CAN have a relationship with someone without giving up all your freedoms! It is possible and they do exist :)