There is no "it." I have always approached this matter differently, but I have been able to get to know the situation because I have basically lived with women all my life. That really is why I have such an anti-sexist stance. My point is, that maybe putting them on another plane of existence isn't the way to go about it. I'm not trying to tell you how you see women, because I'm not you, it is just what I am getting from your discussion. Aside from what typical comedians talk about, there are more to relationships than just money, greed, whatever. There is a lot, and the longer you stay with someone...well, it piles up. But, most guys will sit around and not want or even care to figure that out at all, so I like that you are at least asking. But you have to be more specific, that conversation starter was very vague
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Back in the day, I had women on a pedastal. Too many family 80's movies. Them before me always, give everything you can for them, etc. Basically I was a romanatic sucker. After getting a wake up call, I put em on my level. Were all just people looking for what we want, and someone to spend it with. However, over the last 3 years, my experiences with women have been nothing but horrendous and nightmarish (scratch that, there is 1 exception) and I see so much....petty...EVIL, for lack of a better word from most of them, I think the plane of existance has shifted again. I look at MOST (not all) of them now with disgust. I see them as less than me, that they DON'T deserve what they get, because they do nothing but hurt others to get it. I am trying despertaly in my life, for MANY reasons, to prove this wrong but, no one is "letting me down" like I want them too. So I honestly worry about my psyche in this respect. Im so jaded, bitter, and cynical now over this, is like bizarro land. Maybe thats part of why I brought this topic up, who
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hrm... well, i can understand your cynicism towards people, but why direct it at a gender. i have seen fowl play on both sides. but i think if you are trying to find a girl then this might also be hindering you. if she is perceptive, intelligent and sensitive then she will undoubtedly pick up on the way you feel about women and then most likely not want to spend the time trying to prove herself in your eyes when you first meet. why should she have to make up for other peoples short comings? maybe when you meet someone you should let them be on a clean slate and not expect them to try and rattle your own preconceptions.
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