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Dec 29, 2004 14:05

Why does life have to be so hard for me. Just when i think things are going good for myself things take a turn. I dont understand why I am the way I am. I think I am this horrible girl that no one wants to date. I feel that because of that I have to try like 10 times harder than most people to make a relationship. I do everything Tony could ever ( Read more... )

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soma_seal December 29 2004, 21:15:27 UTC
I feel that because of that I have to try like 10 times harder than most people to make a relationship.

Trying way too hard is something that I'm familiar with, although my tendencies toward laziness may make that seem a non sequitur, but it's true.

I think that you need to be comfortable with yourself and who you are and love yourself before you can be in any really healthy relationship, otherwise, you'll always be dependent on that other person making it so that you only feel valued and worthy if they say so or if they're there to affirm that. Insecurity seems to run rampant in all humans. It's the plague of us against ourselves, lol!

Kristie, you're a gem, and you have a lot to offer. I don't think that anyone should fret so much over potentially losing someone's love, because if their love is that fickle, then what is it really worth to you anyway? I know it's hard to play out, and I know I'm not really one to talk, because that I feel right in your shoes when here. I know the pangs of the fear that someone doesn't love or ( ... )

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bellagoddess69 December 29 2004, 21:22:16 UTC
THANK YOU!

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soma_seal December 31 2004, 05:08:30 UTC
No problem, sweets! Anytime. :o)

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