I know you feel that i have been a real hindrance in your life - and in many ways you're probably right. But in some ways - I hope you know I was always there for you - perhaps too much! lol! Your Aunt Debbie said the sad things about break-ups is sometimes we accept our daughter's/son's significant other as a member of our family - and we fear losing them, too. She's right - someone comes along - and you accept them as a member of your family - you go through alot together - good and bad - and you're afraid they were only there because of the relationship they had with your child. It's sad - especially for someone like me who doesn't especially major in close relationships! I realize my downfalls - but I need to give myself credit for loving someone in my way - good or bad - through good times and bad. I gained a daughter during this relationship - and a good friend -in your mom- to share stories of how proud we are of our children. All I ever wanted was to hold on to the joy, the love, and the fun - to hold on for dear life
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