Boys.Guys. Men. Blah.

[bemyluckycharm]

So there are no good guys-- or so I'm convinced. They're either taken or gay. When I think there's potential, there never is. I'm tired of girls -including myself- constantly being referred to as "hot" or something that guys would like to "hit". I'm usually pretty cool about sayings like that but when was the last time I heard that a girl was "

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[bemyluckycharm]

Lex, I know. It just hurts. I'd kill to hear that someone is beautiful within, too. Even once in a blue moon. People should stop being so desperate. The world isn't a meat market. We're not the meat. It's really disgusting how little people value other people, in general. :\

[bemyluckycharm]

anyway, thank you dear. you are awesome. i miss you... tons. STAY BEAUTIFUL...YOU INSPIRE ME.

[agentshawnee]

Goo guys are hard to come by these days -.-

[bemyluckycharm]

Tell me about it. Hard? Impossible. :(

[agentshawnee]

Did I type goo? lol Good*

[throwfar]

Since I'm from the population that I you are demeaning... I must defend myself :) I oftentimes find MYself in your shoes and wonder if I should turn into the guy Parisa is complaining about. Seems like the nicer I am to girls... the more they dick me over. I'm the nice guy but it's hard to find a girl who respects that. There is a fine line you must keep and I hate being taken advantage of... some sometimes I guess it's easier to be a dick but it just isn't the route for me. Keep optimistic though... when you find that guy it'll be that much more comforting knowing he's a good one! :)

[bemyluckycharm]

Don't turn into that guy. :( And don't be too nice. I'm not saying that either. Just be nice, confident, strong and but not clingy. Just continue to find the beauty in people?
And I don't know about finding that person. Oh well.

[throwfar]

right on woman!

[bemyluckycharm]

:P

[impressionista]

I totally hear you about there being no good guys. The guys I am friends with are either gay or repulsive because of the frequency with which they talk about my two roommate's hotness. Ugh...

[bemyluckycharm]

Yeah. See, the "hot" Thing is okay to an extent but I'd really love to hear something beyond that too... That's all. People mean a lot to me and it's unfortunate apparently not a lot of people value that... ESpecially in the context of guys/girls/relationships. Yuck :( We can totally get together + complain about this/cry. I've cried enough. Fun.

[impressionista]

Yes, it would be nice to get together and commiserate on this ...

Unfortunately I know there is little to be DONE about this problem.

RAWR

[bemyluckycharm]

true, but sometimes it helps to just commiserate with another person. ya know. :\

[xanatos]

waitt I'm a guy and I'm single and not gay...

but I dont pursue girls I'm interested in...
so we are both out of luck :P

haha

[bemyluckycharm]

blah. you should though.